I've always paid much attention to movies like "Ex", because in my heart, I always feel that movies like this type of movies are at most using the bad things between men and women to attract the audience's attention! Although when the movie is promoted, it will be promoted from the perspective of literary romance films, but I think this is just a gimmick! Even if it is dressed in the coat of a literary film, it can't get rid of the vulgar men and women in its bones and the strong commercial atmosphere! Finally, yesterday, I had nothing to do, and I went to watch this movie that I didn't like from the bottom of my bones. After watching the movie, I realized that I was superficial, and I also deeply realized my previous prejudice against this series of movies!
There is such a scene in this movie, that is, Yu Fei played by Zheng Kai and his girlfriend Ding Dian have such a conversation, and now it sounds like it refreshes my three views! Ding Dian inside told Yu Fei that she was pregnant. And Yu Fei said that since you are pregnant, give birth to the child! And then we got married! This sentence is a very responsible sentence, in the eyes of ordinary people, a man is willing to be responsible for the child in your belly and is willing to marry you, this is already the most beautiful appearance of love!
But the next paragraph of Yu Fei's girlfriend Ding Dian simply shattered my three views! That's what she said, it turns out that you fell in love with me just to get married! Your motives for falling in love are too purposeful and utilitarian! I didn't think so much about falling in love with you, I just fell in love with you simply because I loved you! Ouch, I'll go, as soon as she said this at that time, Yu Fei was dumbfounded! When I heard this sentence, I thought it was not only Yu Fei in the movie who was dumbfounded, but it is estimated that many viewers who were watching this movie in front of the screen would be dumbfounded!
In our previous concept, we would think that "love without the purpose of marriage is hooliganism". But when it comes to Yu Fei's girlfriend's mouth, it becomes that love for the purpose of marriage is utilitarian, impure and defiled love, what are these three views! In the past, some people often said that I played a few girlfriends and said that I was playing hooligan if I didn't marry others, but now can I answer them with this sentence from Yu Fei's girlfriend Ding Dian in the movie? I can also say that I only fell in love with them because I loved them, so doesn't that seem lofty? It also saves people from calling me a scumbag! Oops, thank you so much for this movie, for finding a dignified reason for my scum!
In addition, there is such a plot in the movie, which is also a soul torture throughout the whole movie, "Are you really suitable for marriage?" After getting married, you still face many problems, can you still tolerate each other like during your relationship? ”。In order to verify this problem, the male protagonist Yu Fei and the female protagonist Ding Dian in the story launched a marriage cooling-off period, which is what we now call a trial marriage period! They agreed that if the two can tolerate each other during this period, then they will enter the palace of marriage, and if not, their relationship will also end, because there is no meaning to exist! This is to be expected.
In the first half of the cooling-off period of marriage, both people are still trying to be in love, suppressing their true appearance for the sake of each other everywhere, and being humble to each other, this life seems to be very harmonious. But later, both of them felt that it was too tiring to live like this for a lifetime, so it was better to be natural, let go of their nature, and not hold it back, so all kinds of problems followed, and the final result can be imagined, they finally came to the step of breaking up! But at the end of the movie, they finally understand that the real way for two people to live together is mutual understanding and tolerance! Everyone is a mortal, and since they are all mortals, they will inevitably have shortcomings and deficiencies! If you stare at the shortcomings of others every day and ignore the advantages and well-being of others, then this kind of life cannot continue!
And Meng Yun, another male protagonist in the movie, has been on blind dates with various styles of women since he broke up with his ex-girlfriend, under the introduction of his good friend Yu Fei! It can be said that Meng Yun at this time is either on a blind date or on the way to a blind date! Through blind dates with various types of girls, he has also seen the various postures of life! And there is a blind date who said the same thing! She said, "It's not that I like blind dates, but I can meet all kinds of people through blind dates!" ”
But in the process of Meng Yun's blind date, what impressed me the most was not this sentence, but the sentence Meng Yun said, "This ** is a blind date between people!" It is simply a collision of material conditions and material conditions! "Indeed, the current blind date is such a situation, if you still want to find true love on the blind date, then I can only congratulate you on becoming the number one winner of the welfare lottery! After all, the current blind date is to ask if you have a car and a house, and how much is your monthly income? Once these hard conditions do not meet the requirements of others, then no matter how good your character is, it will not be of much significance!
The movie reveals the current situation of the blind date market through a series of blind dates by Meng Yun, which can be said to be a social phenomenon with more depth and social reality. And in the end, Meng Yunneng fell in love with another heroine in the movie not because of a blind date, although they had been on a blind date before! They really failed to go on a blind date, and later found out that they were more in line with each other's ideal love partners. But what many viewers didn't expect was that a pair of lovers who got along so naturally ended up parting ways, which seems to be a bit out of line with the development direction of the storyline! And in the movie, the lovers Yu Fei and Ding Dian seemed to be breaking up in the end, and finally reunited, which was also something that the audience didn't expect! However, this is still relatively easy to understand, Yu Fei and Ding Dian were able to run in and understand each other after a series of collisions, and finally achieved positive results!
For the separation of Meng Yun's lovers, maybe the author wants to tell us that life is not perfect in the first place, maybe in your opinion, everything seems to be flawless, and the most perfect situation is a sign that things have come to an end! It's as if there are couples in reality who don't have domestic violence. Cheating and poverty are the same as suddenly divorced! And those couples who seem to be arguing all day long, dying or living, and wanting to divorce, can finally grow old together. Of course, this is just my personal conjecture and does not represent the real thoughts and intentions that the author wants to convey to us! So how did you feel after watching this movie? Welcome to say it in the comment area!
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