In life, we often encounter such a situation: some boys obviously like a certain girl, but they dare not pursue it, so they can only pay attention silently on the sidelines. This situation not only makes the girl wonder, why doesn't he confess when he likes himself; It also made the boy feel distressed himself, obviously he liked it very much, but he didn't dare to take that step and let others rob it. So, what is the reason why boys are afraid to chase girls? And how do you overcome these obstacles?
1. The reason why boys dare not chase girls.
Not confident. Some boys don't dare to pursue because they have low self-esteem or self-doubt, thinking that they are not worthy of the girl they like. This lack of self-confidence often makes them miss opportunities.
Fear of rejection. Being rejected is not pleasant, and some guys are afraid of being rejected by a girl after trying to pursue, thus falling into embarrassment and pain. To avoid this pain, they prefer not to pursue it.
The other party is too good.
Some boys will compare the various conditions of the girls, thinking that the other party is too good to be worthy. This kind of comparison and self-denial can also discourage them.
Fear of losing. Some guys are afraid that after pursuing a girl, the relationship between the two will change, and they may even lose their old friendship. To avoid this possible loss, they prefer not to pursue it.
2. How to overcome these reasons.
Boost self-confidence. Self-confidence is the key to success. Boys can boost their self-confidence by self-affirmation, positive cues, and exercising their strengths and strengths. Only self-confidence can make a boy brave enough to take the first step towards pursuing a girl.
Don't be afraid to try. The process of pursuit is itself a process of learning. Guys should have the courage to try and not be afraid of rejection. Even if you are rejected, don't be discouraged, learn from it and move on.
Don't over-compare.
Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, don't compare yourself and the girl's conditions too much, but see what makes you unique. When pursuing girls, show your personality and charm.
Keep a normal mind.
Pursuing a girl is not a competition, don't care too much about the outcome. Keep a normal mind and enjoy the process of pursuit, so that you can better show your charm and sincerity. At the same time, it is also necessary to respect the wishes and choices of girls.
3. The pursuit of love is not an easy thing to do, and various difficulties and obstacles need to be overcome.
Only by taking the first step bravely can we go to the other side of success.
I hope that every boy can overcome his psychological barriers and bravely pursue his own happiness. At the same time, I also hope that every girl can understand the boys' intentions and dedication, and give them support and encouragement. On the road of love, only mutual understanding and support can go further and more steadily.
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