Regarding the current buzzing and very interesting and realistic topic --- bride price, a mother gave her unique insight on this for everyone's reference.
First of all, she believes that the bride price is not an excessive demand. After all, when the daughter was growing up, the family gave her a lot, both money and energy. When a daughter changes from a little princess in the family to a daughter-in-law in someone else's family, it's really not too much to ask for a little bride price. Moreover, the bride price that the mother asked for was not as much as her annual salary for a year, and it did not exceed her investment in cultivating her daughter's growth.
So, how should the bride price be handled? The mother gave two ways to deal with it. The first is that after a few years, if the daughter's small family is in trouble, she will give the bride price as support. The second is that if there is an accident in the daughter's small family, she will use the bride price as financial support for the daughter in the early stages of the divorce. This way of dealing with it not only reflects the mother's love for her daughter, but also takes into account the actual situation.
Of course, the mother also made it clear that she would not let her daughter take the bride price back as soon as she got married. Unless the daughter is particularly in need and the man's family is in poor condition, the mother will have a negative attitude from the beginning. If the daughter insists on getting married, then she should be prepared to face possible difficulties.
Finally, the mother advised those who did not want to pay the bride price to go to the girls who did not want it. She believes that it is not necessary to deal with the girl who asks for the bride price about how not to pay the bride price, which will not respect the other party or the marriage.
After listening to this mother's explanation, do you have a deeper understanding of the bride price? In fact, the bride price is not a simple matter of money, it involves many aspects such as family, marriage, respect and love. I hope that when we face the issue of bride price, we can be more understanding and tolerant, so that our marriage will be more beautiful and happy. February** Dynamic Incentive Program