The marriage of a man and a woman is the most important event in life. However, we have to face the fact that there is only one real purpose for men and women to get married. The purpose is not love, not inheritance, nor social pressure, but economic mutual assistance and cooperation.
In human society, there are physical and psychological differences between men and women, and this difference leads to different roles of men and women in life. Men generally have stronger bodies and better strength, making them better suited for some manual labor and protective work. Women, on the other hand, are generally more attentive, patient and gentle, and are better suited to some of the duties of taking care of the family and children. This division of labor is natural and reasonable.
However, with the continuous development of society, the division of labor between men and women has gradually changed. In modern society, men and women are becoming more and more equal in terms of occupation and economy, and women are beginning to have their own careers and financial capabilities. In this case, the purpose of marriage between men and women has also changed.
The real purpose of marriage between men and women is only one, and that is economic mutual assistance and cooperation. Before getting married, both men and women will consider each other's occupation, income, family background, etc., to assess each other's financial ability. After getting married, both men and women should share the economic responsibilities of the family, work hard to make money, and provide better economic security for the family.
Of course, this is not to say that there is no love between men and women. Love is one of the most beautiful human emotions and one of the deepest bonds between men and women. However, love is not the only purpose for which a man and a woman get married. If there is only love between a man and a woman without financial mutual assistance and cooperation, then such marriages are often fragile and unstable. Because, in real life, financial problems are often one of the biggest conflicts between couples.
Therefore, we should be clear about the real purpose of marriage between men and women. This is not to deny the role of love in marriage, but to emphasize that economic mutual assistance and cooperation are one of the most important foundations for marriage between men and women. Only in an economically stable and mutually supportive marriage relationship can both men and women be able to give better play to their strengths and strengths and create a happy family together.
At the same time, we should also be aware that economic mutual assistance and cooperation do not imply a complete and equal sharing of family economic responsibilities between men and women. There are physical and psychological differences between men and women, which lead to different divisions of roles between men and women in the family and economics. However, this does not mean that the responsibilities of men and women in the family and economy are completely separated. On the contrary, men and women should jointly negotiate and share the financial responsibilities of the family, according to each other's actual circumstances and abilities.
In modern society, more and more women are starting to have their own careers and financial capabilities. They are no longer solely dependent on men for the financial responsibilities of their families. In the same way, men should not put all the financial responsibilities of the family on their shoulders. Men and women should share equally in the economic responsibilities of the family and contribute to the happiness and stability of the family together.
In short, there is only one real purpose for men and women to get married, and that is to help each other and cooperate financially. This is one of the most important foundations between men and women. It is only in an economically stable and mutually supportive marriage that a man and a woman can work together to create a happy family. Therefore, we should attach importance to and strengthen the role of economic mutual assistance and cooperation in marriage, while at the same time respecting the physical and psychological differences between men and women, and jointly negotiate and share the economic responsibilities of the family according to each other's actual conditions and abilities.