Xiao San's methods of stimulating his wife may make many wives disdainful, but the wives can't control themselves, and they will still be tricked by these methods.
For example, like Xiao San's means of coaxing a cheating man to find her, and then showing off with his wife, the wives know in their hearts that Xiao San just wants you to have a conflict with your other half.
The wives just can't control it, and when the cheating man comes home, he will definitely make trouble.
Women know women best and know how to stab them in the heart.
In fact, Xiao San is also a woman, she is an effective means to deal with his wife, and his wife uses it to deal with Xiao San, which has the same effect.
Like the previous original partner who came to Su Yue for help, it was a similar situation.
The junior who her husband cheated on is a sales person of a private company, and her old public company is a customer.
Xiao San relies on cheating men to get performance, and he also wants to turn cheating men into long-term cash cows, but the original conditions are very good, whether it is personal conditions or the conditions of his mother's family.
Compared with the mistress, the value of the original match is better, so the cheating man will not divorce easily.
Xiao San didn't dare to offend the cheating man, she didn't directly force the cheating man to divorce.
Instead, he hit the idea on the original partner, wanting to stimulate the original partner and let the original partner divorce.
The means of this junior are very targeted and purposeful.
Most of the mistresses' tactics are similar, and the wives react similarly.
Like this junior, she is trying to coax the cheating man to find her on some festivals, saying that she will accompany her and let the cheating man go home, but the result is that the cheating man will stay once he goes.
The wife may be ready at home to celebrate the holidays with the cheating man.
As a result, the cheating man never returned, he didn't answer, the message didn't return, and it was clear what he had done.
The mistress will also take advantage of the cheating man's inattention and send messages to his wife to show off.
Xiao San directly told his wife that the cheating man was happy with her, which was love.
The cheating man and his wife are depressed together because the cheating man is only for profit.
What Xiao San said was half-true, and his wife herself also had this guess.
In addition, the cheating man's behavior itself makes his wife miserable, and his emotions are naturally uncontrollable.
The original wife's wife was stimulated again and again, constantly arguing with the cheating man.
The relationship between husband and wife was originally not bad, but under the constant conflict, it slowly became bad.
The wife began to think about divorce, and the cheating man began to be less interest-oriented.
But this wife thought about it for a long time, and she still felt unwilling.
also reacted, to this point, it was all Xiao San's means, so he came to Su Yue and asked how to fight back against Xiao San and how to save this marriage.
After Su Yue understood the situation, she told this wife that she could repay the other in her own way.
To put it simply, it is to copy the methods of the junior to deal with the junior.
The cheating man's feelings for his wife and this marriage should be quite complicated.
He may feel that his wife is in trouble every day and has a miserable life, and he really wants a divorce.
But it's not completely emotionless, and you also have to consider the relationship of interests, so the cheating man has been hesitant and entangled, and he didn't want a divorce directly.
Wives at this time, as long as you show that you are willing to repair the relationship and don't make trouble, the cheating man will definitely cooperate, and the wives will guide you, and the cheating man will coax his wife.
Therefore, wives do not need to take the initiative, they have to lower their posture to redeem.
You just need to give the cheating man a little bit of a step and point out your current state.
It is because the cheating man accompanies the mistress every time he celebrates the holidays, implying that the cheating man stays with his wife.
Cheating men will definitely choose to stay, and they don't even need their wives to play some tricks.
Then the wife temporarily stopped the war and maintained a good relationship with the cheating man.
Wait for the junior to be anxious, and in turn stimulate the junior.
Many original partners always think, how can it be so easy to stimulate the mistress?
Wives may wish to think about yourself, why are you so easily calculated by the mistress?
Many of the methods are not so powerful, but they just capture people's hearts.
Xiao San, like his wife, is a woman, and Xiao San is actually more insecure than his wife.
Because she doesn't have any hole cards, she relies on the attitude of a cheating man.
Therefore, the wives stimulate the mistress, in fact, it is easier to have an effect.
The point is whether the wives will do it, and whether they can stick to it.
Then you also go and say some half-truths, such as the cheating man has no feelings for the mistress, but just the body of the mistress, etc.
As long as the stimulation is successful once, the wife will find a trick and be able to stimulate the mistress constantly.
The biggest difference between Xiao San and his wife is that his wife still has interests as hole cards.
So even if you have a conflict with a cheating man and the relationship between husband and wife deteriorates, you can't leave for a while.
But what about the junior? The extramarital affair that brings more enjoyment to the cheating man is her only advantage.
Once the junior can't do it, he will lose his temper with the cheating man and enjoy the extramarital affair.
The cheating man will end up with the mistress soon, because the mistress has no interest and can be abandoned directly.
In the end, Su Yue wanted to say that wives should learn to do things according to human nature, whether it is for cheating men or juniors.
You know that if you continue to make trouble, your relationship with the cheating man will break down, and you don't want to divorce.
Then you have to control yourself not to make trouble, but learn to maintain the relationship between husband and wife and maintain the stability of the marriage.
You also know the purpose of the mistress to stimulate you, so you must learn not to let the mistress achieve the goal.
Then the emotionally stable counterattack Mistress made the Mistress abandoned by the cheating man.
Xiao San is not so smart, she is just an ordinary woman, she can calculate, and so can her wives.
Don't feel like you're inferior to the junior, you just haven't acted.
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