I recently learned that my best friend of decades, her mother was sick again, and she got better, and her physical condition was not good, and there was no one to take care of her, and her family had to be busy making money to live and support medical expenses.
In the past few years, her mother has had to have surgery every year, and now she still has to get injections every day, and after half a year, she will see how it goes.
But even if I knew, I couldn't do anything, and sometimes I think about it, we don't know how we survived so many years of suffering.
In the case of my best friend, she has almost taken on all the responsibilities of her parents, because she is the eldest of three daughters in their family.
I didn't understand why she always carried her parents on herself, including her marriage and childbirth, all of which were arranged by her parents, even if she didn't like it at that time, she was reluctant to do so, and she had to be forced to go back to her hometown for the wedding.
Due to this series of arrangements, the first half of her life was extremely difficult, and then the marriage was unable to maintain and ended in divorce.
But even so, it seems that suffering does not let her go.
worked hard outside, and the three melons and two dates she earned were not enough for her parents to see a doctor.
Even if it is money, there is no one to rely on in terms of spirit, and half of his life has drifted to this day.
When the parents were cared for, they didn't get good love, not to mention, they had to take care of their sisters; When I wanted to go to school well, I didn't get good teaching, so I got tired of school and dropped out; At the moment of getting married and having children, he was forced by his closest relatives and lost the opportunity to choose independently.
It is conceivable that the most important choices in life are all ruined, and even if you have abnormal abilities in the future, it will not be easy to turn the tables, not to mention that you are still burdened with too many things.
When we are deeply involved, we don't know it, and when we look back, we realize that at the critical moment, we have already fallen into the quagmire and can't pull it out.
It is said that suffering picks hard people, and it is absolute for girlfriends.
Looking back, every step was suffering, but she came every step of the way, maybe crying, maybe gritting her teeth, or crawling past.
But she didn't give up, and if the rose was destined to fail to produce beautiful flowers, it would be okay to let her be covered with thorns.