Sometimes the truth is very heart-wrenching, when can saving money be done simply by saving the money saved?
At least after so many years of saving money, relying on saving money to achieve the purpose of saving money, the upper limit is within reach. In the beginning, it is possible to rely on saving money as a way to achieve it, but in the long run, this method is simply not enough.
However, where there are some requirements for the thickness of deposits, it is a basic operation to put "Fuye just needs" on the agenda.
1 Saving money is not about draining your enthusiasm for life, but about storing energy
The joy of buying ** dishes.
2 years ago, I was still interested in spelling Xixi and peach vegetables....insensitive, and will even persuade friends around them not to buy ** vegetables on these platforms.
At one time, I thought that the quality was not up to par, it was not worth buying, and it was impossible to import. I also feel like it's a waste of time and energy to spend time comparing prices.
Now, I don't need others to tell me, I will take the initiative to find ** dishes, which are quite fresh, not as unbearable as I imagined, and even exchange experiences with vegetable friends.
"The fun of wool is gradually revealed, it is so fragrant!
The quality is passable, and the clothes don't need to be bought often.
Unlike the obsession with new clothes, I care more about its quality, from the material to the fit, to the comfort, a piece of clothing with good quality for several years is a common occurrence in me.
It is also a very happy thing to buy a piece of clothing to wear for a few years, and then spread it out and wear it back.
What's more, the old clothes that you don't wear will be sent back to the countryside, and they are also very good to wear when they are busy with farming, so they don't feel distressed at all.
2. Accompany the child and do it yourself; Accompany the family and collide ideas
When I was in my 20s, I paid more attention to work, thought that work was important, neglected to get along with my family, and even did not rest on holidays.
After 30+, I understand that work is only a part of life, not life.
Record growth and accompany learning.
I remember watching a documentary where an adolescent child yelled at his parents, "When you want to take care of it, you don't care, why do you still care about me?" ”
I am particularly impressed that children need to be managed, from all perspectives of life, learning and growth, comprehensive and in-depth companionship, rather than spending money to send tutoring even if it is management and love for children.
Home is not a person's, there is a discussion and a good place together.
Until now, I still talk to my parents about my thoughts and what I did when I was a child.
I will also communicate with my peers about the work situation, some information can be seen online, but more information is hidden in life, and I will also feel that everyone is in different industries, and the information they are exposed to is really different.
Of course, there is a lot of chat with my teammates, and I don't know how ordinary couples communicate with each other, but the topic of conversation between me and my teammates is "money".
Every decision made by my teammates about Fuye is the result of our discussions, and of course, when I do Fuye, I can't do without his dedication and sharing of the family.
3. Develop diversified income, and write on your face that you love money
Be bold about money and express your desires.
I don't know when it started, but I, who was originally ashamed to talk about money, began to express my desire and love for money openly and unabashedly.
At the end of the year, when the leader talked about the salary issue in a separate conversation, he used to be sloppy in the past, but now he is more willing to directly express his views and expectations.
Although there is little hope for a salary increase, it will no longer shy away from it.
Grow without limiting yourself.
If the main business seeks survival and the rich industry seeks development, then now is my true portrayal.
In order to have more time to live a good life, accompany family and children, apply for job transfer, and the salary is only 1 3 of the original. However, the enthusiasm is not extinguished, there are losses and gains, at least I get the rest time and energy in the work, the original post has no holidays, and 996 is the norm every day.
After I was free from work, I kept up with the certification and learning new skills one by one, and made up for the hobbies I had given up for work. I feel that I am improving every day, and not giving up on myself is also a compulsory course for a mother.
Your child will imitate you, and if you want your child to be what you want them to be, why not start changing yourself?
I'm an ant running.
A working mother who works with a baby.
Continue to share the thoughts and earnings of saving money to earn tickets, and let us slowly become rich together.
February** Dynamic Incentive Program