February** Dynamic Incentive Program
Text: Emotional Tractor.
Where to go for the Chinese New Year is a challenging topic for young couples. Before marriage, many young people have made it clear that they will choose to go home for the New Year, or take turns to celebrate the festival at your house this year and at my house next year. However, it is not uncommon for some couples to have their own opinions on this issue, not to give in to each other, and even end up in heated arguments or even fights. Therefore, where to go for the Chinese New Year is indeed a headache.
However, LG and I have already discussed that this year, we will go back to our hometown for the New Year. My mother's family built a new house, and my sister who was far away in Shanghai also said that she would take Xiaowaiwai back to her parents' house together. When the whole family gathers together, it's fun to think about it.
However, LG has been with his family since he grew up** and has never been separated during the New Year's holidays. This Spring Festival, we want to leave the two elderly people in Zhuhai to celebrate the New Year alone, and we are a little unhappy in our hearts.
Moreover, the two of us personally brought the two babies home, and it was strange that the two brothers didn't make a fuss about the sky, and to be honest, we were a little frightened in our hearts. So I discussed with LG whether to bring my parents back to my hometown for the Chinese New Year. LG thinks it's a good idea, but he needs to ask his parents for advice.
In fact, the key person on the side of my father-in-law and mother-in-law is my mother-in-law, and I told my mother-in-law my thoughts. The mother-in-law barely thought about it, and said happily that it was okay, and the whole family was lively and lively together.
My mother-in-law agreed, but I had some doubts, and I confessed to my mother-in-law that my mother had a very ugly temper and spoke without thinking. My mom was unruly and procrastinating. My mom still has these and those problems. My mother-in-law said that it doesn't matter, everyone does things differently.
And I said, what if my mom you off? What if you and your dad go and you're unhappy? My mother-in-law said, "Your mother is angry, so I can't just go away." If you are not happy to go, will you not go next time?
Seeing that I was still in a state of wanting to speak and stopping, my mother-in-law patted me on the shoulder and said loudly, don't think about it too much, believe me, there will be no chaos, and I won't embarrass you. I laughed, I really believe in my mother-in-law's wisdom, and what I don't believe is my hot-tempered mother.
So our family of six returned to our hometown eight days early. My sister and nephew also rushed back from Shanghai. In this way, a total of 10 people celebrated the New Year together, and this is the first time that they have come out for so many years.
Back in her hometown, my mother is still my mother, and her temper and personality have not changed at all. But for the arrival of her parents-in-law, she was still happy and welcoming in her heart. At first, the family was in harmony.
However, after three days, the true nature of my mother and my sister began to be exposed, and my sister began to count down which dish of my mother was not delicious, this thing can't be done like that, that thing can't be said like that, the scene became tense for a while, breaking the atmosphere of harmony. In the past, my mother would say even more ugly things to hit back at my sister, and then the two would quarrel, and it ended very unpleasantly. But I found that my mother had changed, no longer arguing with my sister, but not talking, and turned away with a face full of grievances. In my opinion, my mother is distressed that my sister is working hard outside the home and doesn't want to add trouble to my sister.
My mother-in-law is very capable, every time my mother cooks, she helps with it, and my mother-in-law's cooking is delicious, but I found out that she is not a chef, and she doesn't say how to do it, she just helps.
One night, my mother-in-law pulled me aside and whispered, your sister has a bad temper, your mother is so tired, and she is still verbose. If your sister were my daughter, I wouldn't let her do that. By the way, your sister is like this, you can't, if you want to do this to your mother, I will scold you. It's not easy for your mother to raise you. It's not easy to cook alone and prepare so many things. Hearing my mother-in-law's bitter words, I nodded fiercely, and I was very moved in my heart.
On the fifth day of the Lunar New Year, we left our parents' home and returned to Zhuhai to get ready for work. My parents-in-law concluded that I was very happy to celebrate the New Year at my mother's house, and my mother took good care of her, which was too hard. In the end, I also made a prudent promise that next time I would pick up my parents to come to Zhuhai for the New Year, my mother-in-law would cook for them and let them enjoy it.
I am full of joy when I return to my parents' home for the Chinese New Year, this is not only my return journey alone, but also a reunion journey for our family. To be able to bring my parents-in-law back to my hometown where I grew up is a sense of pride. Half of this joy is due to my wise and understanding mother-in-law. She always understands and supports me in the most appropriate way to make our family warm and harmonious.
How does it feel to go back to your parents' house with your parents-in-law during the Chinese New Year? My experience is: Great!
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