The post-00s guy's wedding room was returned after being blown up, and the shipping cost was thousands!
The post-00s guy's wedding room was changed by his parents, and the shipping cost was as high as thousands of yuan! The aesthetic differences have sparked heated discussions.
Recently, a news about the return of Mr. Chen's wedding room by his parents after being quietly renovated by his parents has attracted widespread attention. When Mr. Chen returned to his hometown in Zhengzhou, he found that the originally empty wedding room had been carefully renovated by his parents, from sofas to massage chairs to marble coffee tables, and a total of 70,000 or 80,000 yuan was spent. In the face of this sudden "surprise", although Mr. Chen felt a little devastated at first, he was also moved by his parents' intentions. However, due to the aesthetic differences between the two generations, Mr. Chen and his girlfriend finally decided to return a lot of unwanted things, and the shipping cost alone was as high as thousands of yuan.
This incident provoked people's thinking about aesthetic differences and resonated with many people. We did a small survey and found that many people have had similar experiences. So, how big is the aesthetic difference between us and our parents? And how should this discrepancy be viewed and handled?
First of all, we need to recognize that aesthetic differences are inevitable. People of different ages, different life backgrounds, and different educational backgrounds have different perceptions and understandings of beauty. The aesthetic concept of the parents' generation may be influenced by their growth environment, life experience and other factors, while the aesthetic concept of the younger generation is influenced by modern culture, fashion trends and other factors. Therefore, in terms of decoration, home furnishing, etc., the aesthetic differences between the two generations exist objectively.
However, aesthetic differences do not mean that they cannot be understood or communicated. In Mr. Chen's case, although he was initially devastated by his parents' renovation, he eventually understood his parents' intentions and expressed his gratitude for their efforts. This shows that as long as we are willing to communicate and understand each other, we can narrow the gap caused by aesthetic differences.
In the face of aesthetic differences, there are strategies we can adopt to resolve the contradictions. First of all, we can communicate with our parents in advance, tell them about our own preferences and needs, and let them understand our aesthetic concepts. In this way, when decorating or buying household items, parents can be closer to our needs and avoid unnecessary waste. Second, we can try to accept and appreciate our parents' aesthetic ideas. After all, their aesthetic concept is also a part of their life and represents their values and attitude to life. By appreciating and respecting their aesthetic notions, we can better understand and include them.
In addition, there are ways in which we can compromise the aesthetic differences between the two generations. For example, when choosing household items, we can pick products that match both our aesthetic and the preferences of our parents. This allows us to meet our needs and take into account the feelings of our parents. At the same time, we can also draw on some design techniques to reconcile the aesthetic differences between the two generations. For example, by skillfully matching elements such as colors and materials, you can make your home space both modern and warm and comfortable.
In conclusion, aesthetic differences are a universal phenomenon, but we can resolve them through communication, understanding, and compromise. In a situation like Mr. Chen's, we can try to understand their intentions and aesthetic concepts from the perspective of our parents, and at the same time, we must be brave enough to express our own needs and preferences. Only in this way can we find a balance between the aesthetic differences of the two generations and work together to create a home environment that is both beautiful and comfortable.
Finally, we hope that this case can trigger more people's thinking and discussion on aesthetic differences. After all, aesthetic differences are not only present in home renovation, but also widely in our daily life and work. Only by constantly learning and communicating can we better understand and respect each other's differences and create a better society together.
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