Marriage is the starting point for two people to spend their lives together.
However, in real life, many people ignore the important link of talking about "conditions" before marriage, which leads to various contradictions and problems after marriage.
In fact, those who dare to talk about "conditions" before marriage are the ones who really understand marriage.
Talking about "conditions" is not a utilitarian expression, but an in-depth thinking and planning of married life.
In married life, two people have to face many issues together, such as financial situation, family trivialities, children's education, etc.
These issues need to be discussed and resolved by both sides, and the "conditions" are discussed precisely to reach a consensus.
In the process of discussing "conditions", both parties can gain an in-depth understanding of each other's values, living habits, future plans, etc., so as to better prepare for the future.
Many couples have conflicts after marriage because of various problems, among which economic problems are the most common.
This is mainly due to the lack of sufficient communication before marriage, which leads to a large difference in the economic situation and consumption concepts of both parties.
And talking about "conditions" is precisely to solve these problems.
By negotiating "conditions", both parties can clarify the family's economic plan, expenditure plan, etc., thereby reducing economic conflicts and frictions.
At the same time, talking about "conditions" can also help both sides better understand each other's needs and expectations, and further reduce conflicts in other aspects.
The process of talking about "conditions" is actually a process in which the two sides understand each other and run in with each other.
By talking about "conditions", both parties can gain a deeper understanding of each other's living habits, values, and expectations, so that they can better adapt to each other.
This in-depth understanding and adaptation can help to improve the understanding and happiness between couples, which in turn will improve the quality of marriage.
At the same time, talking about "conditions" can also help both parties better plan for the future and lay a more solid foundation for married life.
Talking about "conditions" is not a simple matter, and requires certain skills and methods.
First of all, both sides should maintain a good attitude and not see the negotiation of "conditions" as a process of attacking each other or negotiating, but as an opportunity to jointly plan for the future.
Second, it is necessary to fully understand the needs and expectations of the other party, and consider various factors as comprehensively as possible, including economic situation, living habits, children's education, etc.
In this process, both sides should respect each other's opinions and ideas and avoid quarrels or cold wars.
Finally, both parties should reach a consensus and work out common goals and plans to lay a solid foundation for their future married life.
Mr. Zhang and Ms. Li are a couple who are about to enter the palace of marriage.
Before getting married, they negotiated various "conditions" through full communication.
On the economic front, they worked together to develop a family budget and spending plan;
In terms of living habits, they learned about each other's lifestyles and habits and adapted to each other as much as possible;
In terms of children's education, they have reached a common educational philosophy and goals.
Because of these adequate communication and preparation, their married life is very happy and happy.
Mr. Zhang said: "We negotiated various 'conditions' before we got married, which laid a solid foundation for our married life.
We rarely have conflicts over economic or other issues, because we have thought about them before. ”
Dare to talk about "conditions" before marriage, which is a sign of truly understanding marriage.
By talking about "conditions", both parties can get to know each other more deeply, reduce conflicts, and improve the quality of marriage.
Therefore, it is recommended that all couples who are about to enter the palace of marriage fully communicate and negotiate various "conditions" before marriage, so as to fully prepare for their future married life.
Only in this way can we truly achieve a happy and happy married life.
At the same time, it is also hoped that the society can pay more attention to marriage education, help young people establish a correct concept of marriage, and create a better living environment for their future.