Author: Wen Qiusheng.
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In love, if a woman wants to get a man's deep love, she needs to find the right way. It's like opening a door to find the key that corresponds to it.
"Intimacy" wrote: "Love in the right way, don't change each other, don't wronged yourself, so that we can all love and be loved as we want." ”When in love, if a woman knows how to empathize, she will not only find the key to open the door of a man's heart, but also make the feelings between each other sweeter.
The way to truly obtain a man's sincerity is inseparable from four words: "empathy".
Understanding is the highest form of love.
Women know how to empathize, can perceive a man's emotional reaction, and can understand his mood changes in a timely manner.
For example, when a man is angry, a woman can quickly know his depression and anger; When a man is desperate, a woman can know his frustration and disappointment.
By perceiving a man's mood changes in time, he can know if he needs to be quiet and whether he needs comfort.
A woman who is good at managing feelings is very good at empathy. Knowing a man's emotional needs and understanding how he is feeling can accurately give a man some emotional needs.
When a man needs comfort, a woman gives warm comfort, which will make him feel loved and cared for.
When a man feels lonely and a woman is by his side, a great sense of happiness will also be born in his heart.
Women, who know how to empathize, can give men the right love in time.
If a woman uses empathy to make a man feel loved and accepted, a man can find a sense of security in a woman.
And men will also be willing to be a hero and take care of their beloved women seriously.
A woman who really knows how to empathize can know a man's preferences.
I know a girl who has been married to her husband for 10 years, but they have always had a good relationship.
When asked how she manages her relationship, she said that it is to gain insight into a man's preferences and play with him.
The man likes to write calligraphy, so she learns to practice with him; Men like to raise flowers, and she also learned to know flowers and try to raise flowers.
Because she loved what he loved and experienced what he experienced, she was always able to talk to him.
And men, too, are grateful for her love and support her as much as possible for what she likes to do.
Because two people understand each other and support each other's interests and hobbies, they have more topics and intersections.
It's not that hard to manage feelings.
Women only need to empathize, think about men's preferences, learn to do what they like, and it is easy to enter the world of men.
In love, "empathy" is an opportunity for in-depth communication with each other, and women can gain insight into men's preferences, which will bring two people's hearts closer.
The continuation of Qi Heng's Shen in "Do You Know", knows that her husband doesn't really love her.
However, Shen did not deliberately force him to return to the family, but quietly investigated clearly.
Later, she knew that the reason why her husband Qi Heng didn't love her was that she couldn't forget Minglan .
Shen was not jealous, but believed in Qi Heng's personality. When Qi Heng wanted to help Minglan , the Shen family also helped Qi Heng cover in front of his mother-in-law.
Such a move made Qi Heng have a different view of her.
Because of Shen's empathy, he understood him again and again, and finally won his heart.
A truly intelligent woman knows how to empathize, to gain insight into a man's thoughts, and to experience his emotional reactions.
Zhang Xiaoxian said: "I just hope that there is someone who knows that I am not really okay when I say that I am okay, and that there is someone who knows that I am not really happy when I am forced to smile." ”The more a woman understands a man's mind, the more she can grasp his heart.
When a man is understood, he will feel that his soul is finally accepted, and he will cherish her more attentively.
Love is a process of treating each other with sincerity. Women, when managing love, don't worry, don't overpay.
You can start from a man's point of view and understand what he expects from his partner and love.
If a woman can perceive a man's preferences and have empathy. Then, you will be able to better understand a man's needs and know his thoughts.
In this way, in the future life, two people will be able to get along with each other, and they will be able to sing harmoniously.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, who makes a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.