In the long journey of life, each of us is like a drifting ship, and the original family is the original harbor. It gives us warmth and leaves a deep imprint. Sometimes, it only takes one sentence to see the profound influence of the family of origin on us.
For us, the influence of the family of origin is more complex and profound. It shapes our character, influences our values, and even determines the way we approach the world. Those childhood experiences and memories are like a double-edged sword, which is not only our most precious treasure, but also our most difficult burden to get rid of.
You have always been so weak, what will you do in the future? This is a phrase that I have heard repeatedly in my family of origin. It was like a spell that was deeply imprinted in the depths of my soul. For a long time, I lived in the shadow of this sentence, with low self-esteem, timidity, and did not dare to pursue my dreams.
However, it was this sentence that also made me reflect on the influence of my family of origin on me. I began to understand that our family of origin is not the only factor that determines our destiny, we have the ability to change and grow.
In the process, I found that many people had similar experiences to me, all of whom struggled in the shadow of their original families, but eventually found their own light. With their actions and achievements, they have proved that the original family is not our shackles, but the starting point of our growth.
Of course, we can't deny the negative impact of the family of origin on us. Sometimes, we need to be brave enough to face the hurt and pain in order to truly come out of the shadows. But this does not mean that we have to break with our family of origin, but we have to learn to find a balance between love and pain.
Now, I have stepped out of the shadow of that sentence and become an independent and confident self. I am grateful for all that my family of origin has given me, for better or for worse, it has become the most precious experience of my life.
So, when you hear that phrase, don't be afraid, don't run away. Believe in yourself and you have enough strength to face it and change it. Because your life is in your own hands.
Believe in yourself" clouds and clouds are high, and the pride is irreversible.
I believe that I am the best, and I am still strong after thousands of blows.
"Believe in Yourself" is alone in the world, and I am not frightened.
Believe that you are the best, fearless and fearless.