Flirting a woman at the following four times is often easy to break through her heart defenses

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In relationships, women treat feelings differently from men, and they will not be as active as men. Even if they love each other, they may not take the initiative to confess to each other, and most of them love secretly in their hearts.

In "Her Two or Three Things", Yishu wrote: "Such a deep feeling, but it is difficult to speak. It turns out that if you really love someone, your heart is sour, but you will be speechless, sweet words, most of them are said to irrelevant people. ”

Therefore, at this time, men should carefully observe and understand women's minds, and seize the opportunity to attack, so that they can successfully chase the beauty.

When a man is pursuing a woman, it is very important to grasp the timing, and if you grasp it well, you can guide the woman you love to communicate with you, so that you can naturally get twice the result with half the effort.

Therefore, "flirting" with a woman at the following four times is often easy to break through her heart defense, and the success rate is high!

1. At night, it's a good time to chat

All feelings start with chatting, and the same goes for the relationship between men and women, chatting can shorten the distance between two people.

A person may be on a certain alert during the day, but at night, when a person is alone in a space, they relax and become sensual.

And women are naturally sensitive, especially in the dead of night, their hearts will be more fragile, and when a man chats with her at this time, it is easy to arouse her emotional resonance. It's also a good time to pursue a woman.

Of course, when you first start chatting, you can't send ambiguous words when you send messages, otherwise it will only make the woman think that you are frivolous and thus reject you.

Therefore, at the beginning of the chat, you should send some normal care and greetings, so that she will have a good impression of you first, which is the first premise.

You can talk to her about interesting and happy things, or care about her life, pay attention to her mood, and slowly introduce the topic.

Especially in the dead of night, it is the most fragile time for a woman's emotions, if you can care about her, it will be easy to enter her heart, so that she will slowly and unconsciously become dependent on you in the chat, once she recognizes you in her heart, it will be easy to accept your pursuit, and you will smoothly fall in love.

2. Help her when she is in trouble

People's mental defenses are often the easiest to break when they are most vulnerable, even the strongest people are no exception.

Especially for a woman, when she is in trouble, you appear in time, regard her problems as your own problems, and solve problems for her wholeheartedly, she will instantly have a good impression of you and will open her heart to you.

Because, no matter how strong a woman is, she will have times of vulnerability, and once she is in trouble, she will long for a man by her side to help her and become her dependence.

Therefore, when a man pursues a woman, he must first understand what difficulties she has and be bold enough to help her. Don't care about the gains and losses, do your best to help her, and she will definitely feel your sincerity.

And will have a good impression of you, and will naturally have more contacts with you, which will shorten the distance between each other.

My colleague Xiaohui is a woman with a strong appearance who can take charge of her own at work. She said that when she first met her boyfriend, she was not interested in him and did not want to fall in love with him.

During a move, when she was faced with a room full of furniture, all kinds of clutter could not be handled, and her boyfriend learned that she was moving, and offered her help and quickly helped her move.

and helped her decorate her new home, busy until late at night, Xiaohui was very moved by her boyfriend's sincere help, so she looked at him even more differently.

In this way, the two have been in frequent contact since then, and in less than half a year, they have confirmed their relationship.

Therefore, when a woman is in trouble and needs help, the man takes the initiative and tries his best to help her and solve the difficulties, it is easy to break through her mental defense and successfully chase the woman.

3. Give her care when she is sick

Everyone will have times when they are not feeling well and sick, and this is also the most vulnerable moment, if there is someone who can be around to take care of and accompany you at this time, it is from the heart to thank you enough.

Especially women, when they are sick and unwell, they need someone to take care of and accompany them.

At this time, if the man can take care of her, urge her to take medicine on time, and rest well, she will definitely feel special warmth, and will feel that the man is a person to rely on.

In the TV series "The Farthest Distance", workaholic Su Ying refuses to stop working when she is sick, but she also longs for the care of others.

When Dr. Qin came to visit her, she was very grateful in her heart, although she hurriedly packed up and didn't want him to know, Dr. Qin still saw it at a glance, but chose to remain silent.

After all, the taste of being sick is very uncomfortable, and who doesn't want someone to be by their side to take good care of themselves and accompany them?

Therefore, the best time for a man to pursue a woman is that when she is sick, she can give companionship and care in time, and the woman will definitely break the defense and identify you in her heart.

4. Give her companionship when she feels lonely

Although we are now used to being alone, we still need someone to pass the time.

For example, when you are lonely, you can have someone to talk to, or to have dinner or watch a movie together, and you will be very grateful to each other.

Especially for women, at this time, she may not know how to pass the time and who she can be with, but at this time, if the man can appear in time, I believe she will feel warm and relieved.

Xiao Chang is often alone, feels very lonely, and she is very eager to have someone to accompany her. But she didn't know who to turn to. It just so happened that a male colleague who had a crush on her invited her to go out to participate in the event together, and she gladly accepted.

This invitation at the right time became just right, which made Xiao Chang change his mind and was willing to fall in love with a male colleague.

It can be seen that the best time for a man to pursue a woman is to give her companionship when she feels lonely, and the woman will definitely break the defense.

Closing Remarks:

In a relationship, it is very important for a man to pursue a woman, and it is very important to grasp the opportunity, which will not only easily break her defense, but also have a high success rate.

As long as the man can give the woman sincere companionship and care during these four times, and provide moderate help, the woman will definitely be attracted to you and willing to have a further relationship with you.

At night, it's a good time to chat; Help her when she is in trouble; When she is sick, give care; Give her companionship when she feels lonely.

In short, as long as a man cares for a woman with his sincerity and sincerity, I believe she will definitely feel it, and she will naturally get close to you.

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