February** Dynamic Incentive Program
Hello, I'm Sugar.
Someone said, "There is always a rain that catches you off guard and makes you feel embarrassed; There's always someone who overwhelms you and bruises all over your body. ”
Suddenly, is a good word, as if not cherishing and being caught off guard can also be blamed on suddenness, suddenly gained, suddenly lost. It's as if any change happened suddenly.
However, even if the stars fall into the eyes, everything in this world is still traceable. The so-called suddenness is just not felt with the heart.
When a man is not in love, it doesn't happen suddenly, there are these two signs.
01 I don't want to share with you, and I don't want to listen to you share.
I've seen a short **. The woman loves to share with men what she saw and heard that day.
For example: the beautiful clothes she saw when she went shopping with her girlfriends; Delicious food you eat when you eat with your colleagues; and the ...... of the clear blue sky that she casually photographed to men
All her expectant sharing was only exchanged for the man's "no time" and "I'm busy".
One day the man came home late, and the woman asked the man with concern that he came back so late because the project you were in charge of made you .........
Before the woman could finish speaking, the man replied to the woman's words in an impatient tone.
When a man doesn't want to talk to you, when he communicates with you, he just doesn't want to share with you, even if you haven't done anything wrong, he will still be refuted by him in a particularly bad tone, then he is really tired of you.
Sharing is both the beginning and the end of a relationship. The love of two people is to think about each other, not to repeat the same topic every day. One party's sharing can't wait for the other's response, and the love gradually dissipates.
02 Always have a bad "memory".
There was a couple and the woman was allergic to mango. But every time a man buys fruit, he only buys mangoes. The woman asked why she bought mangoes every time, and the man said that he "forgot" that the woman was allergic to mangoes.
The woman and the man agreed to go to the movie on the weekend, and the woman bought the ticket and happily waited at the door of the cinema. But I haven't seen a man. The woman called the ** to the man, and the man said "forgot" to watch the movie today.
The man went on a business trip and promised to bring a gift to the woman. But the man came home empty-handed. The woman asked me what about the gift? The man said "forgot", and you also know that I have a bad "memory".
In fact, a man buys mangoes because his female colleague likes to eat them, so he also likes to eat mangoes; The pigeon who let the woman watch the movie is because he is eating and chatting with his female colleagues; The gift he promised to buy for the woman was not bought because he did not travel at all, but traveled with his female colleagues.
A man who loves a woman, even if he really has a bad memory, can set an alarm clock or store something in a memo. If he doesn't, and always uses bad memory as an excuse, it means that you are no longer the most important person in his heart and cares about the most.
Conclusion: Sociologist Li Yinhe once said this:
When you have seen the way someone loves you, you know what kind of performance will exist in the other person if they don't love you. ”
When you love, it is time, it is the universe, it is the mountains and rivers, and when you don't love, all the grand propositions no longer have the meaning of existence.
Men who don't love you anymore will take the initiative to push you away. And what you have to do is love yourself.
If you bloom, butterflies will come.
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