Capture the hearts of boys and learn to use emotional strategies skillfully.
When we talk about routines, we often hear about its efficacy. But how can you capture a person's heart without putting a little effort into it? Especially when dealing with boys, sometimes small things can get more attention from them. That way, even if they're far away, they won't help but come back to you.
What kind of girls do guys love? We girls might as well try to change ourselves, instead of blindly playing the role of well-behaved or **, but adjust the image in a timely manner according to the situation. It's not a sycophant, it's an irresistible attraction for boys. Why? Because this is the importance of "being able to pretend", and if you don't understand this, you can't keep up with the times.
When arguing, learn to "pretend to cry" subtly. Girls, what do you do when you have a conflict with your boyfriend? Is it a loud yelling? Or is it silent, with a low head in a daze? These methods are common in TV dramas, but they are not very effective. Many girls are confused, what should they do? Because he had done his best, he was still indifferent and never said "I'm sorry, don't be angry". I didn't hear the long-awaited sweet words, and I couldn't help but have doubts in my heart. Do you feel anxious at this point? Don't worry, read on.
If the soft grinding and hard foam don't work, try "pretending to be weak"! Just like what you can see in the TV series, when the two were arguing, the girl suddenly cried ......The results are immediate! Boys are most afraid of girls crying, and when he saw you crying, he immediately softened: "Baby, it's my fault, don't cry.......""At this point, you have to be steady! There are also techniques for crying, don't pretend to be, otherwise the tears become "worthless".
When shopping, you also have to learn to "pretend to be tired"! On weekdays, many couples like to eat, watch movies, and go shopping. But you know what? The boy is very impatient to go shopping, and every time he hears the word "shopping", his head will be several times bigger. How do you get a boy who doesn't want to go shopping to take the initiative? Here's the secret – compliment them every now and then! Make them feel like they're the strongest men! Every time you walk down the street, you feel "Hey, I'm tired", and then let them see you wearing high heels, and they will naturally say, "I'll carry you!" And then you whisper in their ears, and it must be wonderful!
People say boys need encouragement, but don't praise them too much! If you say the same thing too much, they will get bored and think that you are just talking casually and not sincerely. It turns out that boys need to be praised too! In this way, they will take the initiative to ask you out to go shopping, and they will also care if you are tired.
When separating from a man, learn to "pretend to be busy"! Sometimes, girls rely too much on boys, and boys are disgusted, and even say "can you stay away from me, don't always follow me". Doing so will make the girl feel sad, and the other person will gradually get tired of it and eventually leave. Therefore, it is better for girls not to always revolve around the boy, not to take the initiative to contact him, and not to hug him too warmly, let alone "I miss you!" "If you're free but haven't spent time together, wait for them to contact you first, then wait a little before replying to the message. This way they will get back to you immediately and communicate seriously. The farther away you are from him, the more he wants to close the distance, hug you tightly, and say "don't go". If you want him to fall in love with you deeply, or even treat you as a wife, you have to treat him with appropriate indifference.
How can you deal with men without strategy? Girls, don't always give blindly, and don't blindly stammer those big men! Don't be too enthusiastic about guys, and occasionally snub them so that they understand your preciousness.