When people reach middle age and experience the beatings of life, they understand the truth of life
In this society, no one will tolerate you because of your cowardice and low self-esteem, they will only give you respect because you are strong and confident.
Don't try to change others, and don't expect others to change for you. Don't assume that you can fully understand others, or that others can fully understand you.
If you can solve the problem by yourself, try to solve it yourself, and don't trouble others easily.
People who have more secrets tend to have stronger aura and less susceptible to the influence of others.
Maybe in the past you were hot-tempered but soft-hearted, but over time you may have become gentle but firm in heart.
No matter how lonely you feel, don't reconnect with those who are toxic, they will only cause you more pain and distress.
How your colleagues treat you at work often depends on whether you show honesty and truthfulness.
Don't force others to tell the truth, their actions often already give the answer.
Don't show your plight and embarrassment to others, they won't sympathize with you, but may look down on you.
You don't need to excel in everything, but you must have the knowledge and skills to surpass others in one area.
Always remember not to hate your enemies, because they are the first to spot your fatal flaws and the ones who push you to grow.
Don't be afraid to start over, because this time you will learn from your past experiences and be wiser and more mature.
If your opponent makes you feel angry and out of control, then you have most likely lost to him.
Always keep three things secret: your emotional state, your emotions, and what you're planning.
The hardest people to communicate with are not those who are uneducated, but those who have been indoctrinated with fixed ideas and standard answers.
The real power is not to push others into a difficult situation, but to pull the person out of the difficult situation and help them get back on their feet.
Your image must be ahead of your abilities, otherwise your abilities can easily be overlooked or underestimated by others.
For people you don't have a stake in, it's enough to show your politeness and friendliness; But for those who have a stake in you, you also need to show your strength and ability.
In any relationship, if the other person does not consider your feelings and interests before doing things, then you should stop the loss in time and protect your interests and dignity.
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