If you give someone a small help in times of crisis, he will appreciate you.
But if you help people too much, so that they become dependent, once you stop helping, it will make people jealous.
Profit-seeking villains
In life, mercenary villains are only willing to stand up for their own interests.
If you help him in everything and feel that you have done a lot for him, but such a person, in the face of interests, will not be soft on you, and once you feel that it is profitable, you will not consider your situation again.
Such a person is easy to damage the interests of the people around him in the process of pursuing interests, so when you meet such a person, you can help if you can, but it is too busy, and it is best to consider more.
Sometimes, if you hurt your interests to help him, he will not necessarily be grateful to you, and when something special happens, he may even fall into the ground.
People who don't know how to be grateful
In real life, not every time you help others, you can get sincere gratitude, and not everyone knows how to be grateful.
People who don't know how to be grateful feel like their hearts are covered with a layer of dust, and they can't see the favor of others.
You help them, they say thank you, but as soon as you stop helping them when you are in trouble, they start scolding.
They don't know how to be grateful, so they think that you give you as if they should have it.
They tend to take your stuff for themselves.
People who don't know how to be grateful never think of your good, but only remember your mistakes, and no matter how much they give, it will be in vain for them.
People who can't hold up the wall with mud
People who can't support the wall with mud are often unmotivated, always thinking about getting something for nothing, whimsical, and never down-to-earth.
If a person doesn't plan to work hard, no matter how much you support, it's useless.
Once there is a problem to find you, once the lack of money to find you, once the trouble is looking for you.
If you refuse to help any time, they accuse you from the highest moral point, put the blame on you, say you don't help, and even go around saying bad things about you.
Don't try to change a person with wrong views, because the mud can't support the wall, let alone think about you, but if you make him unhappy a little bit, he won't even have a conscience, and he will put the responsibility on you, and he feels that he is not wrong.
People who can't support the wall are the kind of people who can't support them for a long time, and once you give help, it may depend on you for the rest of your life, which will affect your own life and that of your family.
Our kindness should be used in those who really need it, and in those who know how to be grateful.