China's Jiangsu Network, January 31, South News "In this life and this life, no matter how hard and tired we are, we will never give up, and raise our daughter with all our love....This is the promise made by Xu Yingfa and his wife Shen Liangfang to their adopted daughter in Gaozhuang Community, Motou Town, more than 50 years ago. Over the past 50 years, this ordinary and respectable rural couple has composed a touching movement of true love with kindness, strength and hard work.
Hold up a home with love.
Difficulties are only temporary, the sunshine is always after the wind and rain, and I firmly believe that our future life will be better. Xu Yingfa said optimistically. How much suffering life gives you, how much joy it will give you, this sentence is the best interpretation of them. Daughter Xu Jinmei is the richest gift that fate has given them. Xu Yingfa recalled that for many years after marriage, children have always been the heart disease of the couple. One early morning fifty years ago, Xu Yingfa and his wife Shen Liangfang found a discarded baby girl in front of their house, and the two of them were so happy that they carefully picked up the child. Since there is an extra "heart baby" in the family, he has worked harder than before, and whenever he has time, he will take the child out to visit the door and tell everyone that he is a father.
When he was 6 years old, the child suddenly became ill, and the doctor said that the child had epilepsy, and the couple hugged their heads and cried. The next day, Xu Yingfa and his wife took their daughter and embarked on the road of finding relatives. After a month of inquiry and understanding, I finally learned that the child's mother had passed away due to dystocia. Xu Yingfa and his wife decided to let Xu Jinmei live no matter what, "Although she is not our biological child, we must treat her as our own flesh and blood no matter what." Recalling the past, Shen Liangfang burst into tears.
At present, although their lives are not easy and they live on subsistence allowances all year round, Xu Yingfa always smiled and said: "We will take care of her every day." ”
50 years of perseverance in the interpretation of the great love of the world.
For 50 years, more than 18,000 days and nights, Xu Yingfa's wife Shen Liangfang has been waiting by her daughter's side, relieving Xu Jinmei, who can't go out, every day, wiping her body, washing bed sheets, looking at her daughter who is unaware of the outside world, Shen Liangfang still has a loving face.
At the age of fourteen, Xu Jinmei's condition was so serious that she even fell unconscious for a while. In order to treat their daughter, Xu Yingfa and his wife spent all their family savings, ran to Nantong, Rugao and other hospitals for medical treatment, and finally pulled their daughter back from the death line, but the daughter was paralyzed in bed since then, but Xu Yingfa and his wife never gave up.
Fan her in the summer, and prepare a hot water bottle at any time in the winter, Xu Jinmei's physique is weak and easy to get sick. Her habits have long been deeply imprinted in the hearts of Xu Yingfa and his wife, and they have persisted for 50 years. In order to take care of Xu Jinmei, Xu Yingfa and his wife did not go out to work, and they couldn't even stay at relatives' houses for too long.
Never leave the neighbors to preach.
Have you ever thought about giving up on your "silly daughter"? Xu Yingfa, who should have enjoyed his old age in peace, said plainly: "I'm used to it!" The words are full of love for her daughter. The love of Xu Yingfa and his wife touched the people nearby, and ** at all levels often came to the door to express condolences and send warmth. Neighbors, relatives and friends often visit the house to help them in their daily lives.
This is an extraordinary family, and they have spent 50 years interpreting the true meaning of "beloved son".