Lu Yu also plays "mother-son love"! and 19-year-old Ayunga love affair**, many of the same style were picked.
Recently, Lu Yu posted a group of ** on social platforms, taking a sweet photo with singer Ayunga, who is 19 years younger. The love affair between the lovers has sparked heated discussions among netizens, especially their so-called "mother-son love", which has become the focus of everyone's attention.
This makes people wonder, why do some women always choose men who are younger than themselves? Is it really just a search for feelings, or is there a deeper reason behind it?
In the workplace, we often meet women who are always surrounded by young men.
These women usually have successful careers and superb skills, but they are always passive in the emotional world, and their suitors are always young men.
Through my conversations with these women, I found some commonalities.
First of all, most of them are strong women, who care too much about the success of their careers and ignore their own emotional needs. In the workplace, they excel, with great skills and high incomes, but they lack emotional support. Because they are too focused on their work and ignore their inner needs, gradually, they become empty shells without emotional sustenance, and at this time, young men will become their emotional sustenance.
Secondly, they both have a strong desire to control and like to control everything in their relationship. They like to dominate this immature relationship, both in everyday life and in bed. This relationship gives them a sense of being needed, but in reality, that need comes at a cost.
Finally, they also have a certain sense of fear, fear of losing each other. These women often pay too much attention to external factors such as their body shape and appearance, and they think that only by having these can they keep each other by their side. However, in this immature relationship, these superficial things do not make the relationship last.
Back to the relationship between Lu Yu and Ayunga, we can see that this kind of mother-son love is not uncommon in the workplace. This kind of relationship seems to be a bit unusual, but in fact, the reasons behind it are the same.
The most important thing for these women is to recognize what their heart's true needs are, rather than looking for feelings through this immature relationship. They need to realize that while performing well in the workplace, they also need to set aside some time and space for themselves to take care of their inner needs and find their true happiness.
In the workplace, we often ignore our emotional needs and choose to devote all our time and energy to our work.