Breaking defenses for adults often starts with class reunions. On that day, you put on your best clothes and delicate makeup, but you couldn't hide your anxiety and uneasiness.
You see those classmates you used to know, some of them have successful careers, some have happy families, and you are still groping on the road of life. You start to wonder if you can really achieve your dreams and live the life you want.
You begin to think back to those old days, those youthful years you spent together. You begin to sigh, time flies so fast, and in the blink of an eye we have grown up**. You start to miss the days when you struggled together and chased your dreams together.
You start to compare, to compare yourself with other classmates. You start to feel inferior and lost, and you feel as if you have fallen behind others in your life.
But you know what? Life is not a race, everyone has their own life trajectory and timeline. You don't have to compare yourself to others, and you don't have to pursue other people's success and happiness. You have to believe in your own ability, believe in your own value, and believe that the future will be better.
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Class reunions may make you feel lost and anxious, but they will also make you re-understand yourself and rekindle hope for the future. You have to learn to face your own shortcomings and failures, learn to stand up from setbacks, and learn to keep working hard and struggling.
Everyone has their own growth process and life trajectory, don't be swayed by other people's eyes and evaluations. You have to believe in your dreams and beliefs, move forward bravely, and constantly pursue your happiness and success.
Finally, I would like to say that no matter what stage of your life you are now, keep a positive mindset. Don't be afraid of failures and setbacks, because only then can you truly grow and progress. Believe in yourself and believe in the future, and you will be able to create your own wonderful life.