I just got through the tutoring task of the child's online class at home.
Let the children's long-awaited summer vacation be again.
Many parents are starting to have a headache again.
Why is that?
Because I have to spend a lot of time with my children doing homework!
I heard that every tutoring child with homework is the beginning of a parent-child war.
Take a look at today's article, have you also been recruited?
The child is careless in his homework.
Porous. Obviously, I have spent all my time on counseling.
But the child's grades are still mediocre.
Accompany your child to finish their homework every night.
The fire gas value directly exploded.
But in the face of children's anger, they still have to be.
Pressed and pressed. The temper endures and endures.
But some parents can't hold it back.
Recently, in Daqing, Heilongjiang, at half past 10 o'clock in the evening, the voice of a mother loudly tutoring her child's learning came from a residential building in a small community, mixed with reprimands.
From the ** uploaded by netizens, you can still hear clearly: "This is a small A, why are you writing a big A?" "I've learned from you" "Why don't you do it!" ”
After the mother trained the child, the father began to play again, and the parents seemed to be really some for the child's homeworkHelplesswithCrashFinish.
Details determine success or failure - any big thing is made up of small things, and it is all made up of details. The details are inconspicuous, but they are often the difference between success.
Around us, more and more children are ignoring details and being careless. Parents often remind their children, but they are still prone to make mistakes in details.
Many times it's not that he can't learn, it's that he's too careless. The reason why this is the case has a lot to do with the child's concentration level.
Psychological research shows that if children are not attentive enough, or if they do not concentrate long enough, the brain will be disturbed when screening and analyzing the information seen visually, and the information will be wrong, omitted or forgotten, resulting in carelessness.
In order to avoid adverse effects on his future life and learning, parents should adopt the right methods in time to help their children improve their attention and cultivate a good habit of doing things carefully.
Give your child more hints of "details".
In the face of careless children, avoid using harsh criticism such as "why are you so careless" and "don't you even look at your eyes", otherwise it is likely to reinforce the child's "carelessness", because of the fear of criticism, do things carefully, and cannot concentrate.
Instead, we should give our children more "attentive" cues.
How?
When your child is preparing for homework, remind him to "be careful with your questions, I believe you can do it". In addition, after the child has completed the task conscientiously, parents should also give him affirmation in time, and strengthen his "careful" performance through encouragement.
In the long run, children will have a psychological hint that they are very "careful", and they will have the subjective initiative to overcome carelessness, and then fundamentally overcome the phenomenon of ignoring details and carelessness.
Improve your child's visual attention
Visual memory – the ability to transmit, store, and retrieve information from visual channels.
If your child's visual memory is poor, he or she will have the following manifestations:
I read the new words several times, but I can't remember them."
It's easy to misread similar words, numbers, letters, etc.".
Copying is easy to omit words and skip lines".
In this regard, some training can be done to improve the child's visual memory.
How?
For example, ask your child to describe what he just saw, or what happened that dayYou can also let your child complete the extracurricular reading and work with your child on the plot in the book. While improving visual memory, it will also help exercise children's attention.
Some "little work".
On weekdays, parents can also selectively let their children do some "fine work" according to their children's age, personality characteristics, preferences, etc.
For example, arrange for the child to do some things within his ability, such as sweeping the floor, folding quilts and other housework, and you can also train the child to play chess, Go and other entertainment projects, so that he can concentrate on what to do next, so that he can calm down and do every detail.
In these ways, I believe that the child's attention will be stimulated little by little, and he will become more attentive.