The man in front of him, who was naked, with glasses, holding a cigarette, sitting without a seat, and talking to reporters was named Xiao Li. It turns out that Xiao Li is 38 years old this year, and he doesn't go out of the door all day long, neither goes out to look for a job, nor has the heart to make money, and completely relies on his parents to support him, completely looking for a "giant baby" image.
When the reporter asked him: "What should you do if your parents are old and have no money to support you?" Xiao Li is even more astonishing: "My homestead is very wide, and I can find a developer to sell it for a lifetime, but it's really not good, just dig a fish pond and engage in some aquaculture industry is enough for my own expenses."
As soon as these words came out, the reporter was speechless, and then the reporter carefully asked his mother, Aunt Liang, about Xiao Li's situation. According to Aunt Liang, her son Xiao Li used to be an honest and well-behaved child and was also very ambitious, but since his two marriages failed and his career was not smooth, he has slowly evolved into what he is now.
Xiao Li is a native of Zhuozhou, Baoding, Hebei Province, with a low education, and because he is in the countryside, he has been wandering outside after graduating from primary school. In 2004, Xiao Li was introduced to his other half. That girl likes Xiao Li very much and thinks that Xiao Li is a person who can be entrusted for life. But the mother-in-law is a snobbish and money-eyed person, she feels that Xiao Li comes from a rural family, has neither money nor a beautiful career, and is not worthy of her daughter, so she does everything possible to prevent them from getting married, so even when it comes to talking about marriage, they don't pull the marriage certificate.
Because she couldn't convince her daughter, the mother-in-law had to make a fuss about the bride price, and on the eve of the wedding, the mother-in-law suddenly raised the bride price, wanting Xiao Li to retreat. At this time, Xiao Li was young and vigorous after all, and after two glasses of wine, he actually did something impulsive, he stabbed his mother-in-law twice with a knife, and his mother-in-law was immediately hospitalized, and the girl's family also called the police.
The marriage must be yellow, not only that, but Xiao Li will also face prison. Sure enough, a few months later, Xiao Li was imprisoned, and he also ate prison meals for two years.
After being released from prison, Xiao Li came to Beijing to wander, under the introduction of a fellow countryman, Xiao Li successfully went to work in a state-owned enterprise, with a salary of about 5,000 yuan per month, although such a job is nothing in Beijing, but at least it is very stable, and the work is not tiring.
It didn't take long for the matchmaker in his hometown to call Xiao Li ** and ask him to come back on a blind date, this girl is a native of Zhuozhou, she is more honest, and Xiao Li is a very good match. When Xiao Li went home and saw this girl, he was also instantly moved by this girl, at this time Xiao Li only wanted to get married quickly, after all, he was not young.
This time, Xiao Li and the girl pulled the marriage certificate and got married.
This girl works in Zhuozhou locally, the salary is not high, it hopes that her husband Xiao Li can return to Zhuozhou to develop, after all, the two have just been married, and the relationship needs to be managed.
Xiao Li also heeded the advice, quit his job with a monthly salary of 5,000, and returned to Zhuozhou.
However, due to his low education and lack of acquaintances, it was difficult for Xiao Li to find a job with a higher salary, and after several efforts, he barely found a job to make ends meet, but the salary was only about 1,000 yuan.
Faced with the huge gap in wages, Xiao Li had to accept the reality that they rented a house in the city, and it was very cheap. Due to the unstable work of the young couple, they also have no plans to have children.
As the honeymoon period passed, the life of the young couple returned to "firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea", and the couple gradually began to quarrel over some trivial matters. Over time, Xiao Li's wife felt that Xiao Li was a wreck and had no ability to make money, and began to dislike Xiao Li a little.
But Xiao Li felt that although his current salary was low, as long as he was willing to work hard, his life would definitely get better one day, so he worked hard and found some part-time jobs by the way, so as to increase his income, and also handed over all the money he earned to his wife for safekeeping.
However, what he didn't expect was that his wife had changed her mind at the moment, often hooked up with married men outside, and even brought some strange men to the rental house, and a few times, Xiao Li almost bumped into him on the spot.
Xiao Li couldn't bear the betrayal of his marriage, so he filed for divorce, and his wife readily agreed. Since he didn't have any common property, Xiao Li chose to leave the house and start everything from scratch.
After the failure of his second marriage, Xiao Li was completely disappointed in his marriage, and in his opinion, marriage had nothing to do with him.
After the divorce, Xiao Li came to Beijing again, but due to the low level of education, there was no place for Xiao Li in such an international metropolis. In order to save money, he had to rent a basement, and later found a hard job on the construction site, although the work was hard, but the daily salary was okay, and he could learn a lot of construction skills. He made up his mind to work with the contractor, hoping that he could get ahead one day.
After working with the contractor for almost two years, the contractor suddenly died of illness, and Xiao Li, like other construction workers, had to go back and forth for his wages. At that time, the law was not as sound as it is now, and they found several departments, but the developer and the contractor played ball with each other. Therefore, Xiao Li asked for a long time and failed to get his salary back.
Xiao Li, who was desperate, called Aunt Liang and told him that his career was not going well, he didn't want to go to work anymore, and wanted to go back to his hometown to recuperate.
Seeing that her children have experienced two failed marriages, and now their careers are also very unsmooth, Aunt Liang is also very distressed, and she also hopes that Xiao Li can recuperate at home for a while, and then go outside after regaining her confidence.
didn't think about it, Xiao Li stayed at home for a few years, neither wanted to go out to find a job, nor did he want to make money, and he sneered at marriage. Every day, he lives a life of clothes and food, and when he has no money, he asks his parents for it, and he also says that he has seen through life, and people should enjoy it in time when they live.
After the reporter learned the ins and outs of the matter, he began to try to persuade Xiao Li, feeling that he was now in the prime of life and should not be so decadent. At first, Xiao Li didn't listen to it at all, but then the reporter gave him many examples of success after countless failures, and he began to waver. He gradually reflected on his own actions, and he felt that the failures he had experienced were nothing compared to others. After several hours of patient persuasion, Xiao Li finally came to his senses and said that he would regain his confidence and go back to work.
In fact, there are quite a lot of people like Xiao Li in society now, and they are all very fragile people. Xiao Li is nothing more than experiencing two failed marriages and a bad career that will lead to self-abandonment, feeling that society has abandoned him. So don't all those who are burdened with huge debts and have broken families jump into the river to commit suicide? People live a lifetime, no one is smooth sailing, how many slopes will go down how many bumps, the road of life can only be meandering forward, when encountering ups and downs, we must learn to adjust their mentality to face calmly.