The phoenix man cheated on him, and he lost everything after I left
During the Eastern Han Dynasty, Princess Huyang fell in love with the minister Song Hong. When Emperor Liu Xiu learned of this, he asked Song Hong about his opinion on "the wife of the bad chaff does not go to court", and secretly hinted that he should abandon his wife in poverty.
However, Song Hong made it clear that his wife was his partner in adversity and could not be easily abandoned. Liu Xiu deeply felt Song Hong's loyalty and gratitude, and gave up the idea of letting Song Hong abandon his wife.
However, in real life, many people's values are the opposite, choosing "expensive and easy to befriend, rich and easy to wife".
The coldness of human nature cannot be avoided by you and me. Sometimes, we easily believe in the promises of others, but in the end, we may only end up being abandoned. That's reality, that's human nature.
A typical example of this is the recent hot search incident, where a stay-at-home wife quit her job to support her husband's career. And when the husband's annual salary reached 3 million yuan and his career was successful, he chose to deceive his wife, transfer the joint property of the husband and wife, and claimed that he only had 100,000 yuan and wanted his wife to leave with 50,000 yuan.
That's human nature, we can't change it, but we can learn from it and not repeat it. "
Women's efforts are often overlooked, and if they are not reciprocated as they deserve, it is not only unfair to them, but also a test of humanity. As Li Bihua said: "Don't test human nature, it's not vulnerable at all." ”
We should cherish and respect everyone's contributions, and let justice and fairness become the main theme of society.
Ms. Xiao received a ** from her ex-husband asking her about child support and work. The ex-husband accused her of sending ** and chat logs to the company, causing him to lose his job. Ms. Xiao hung up**, deleted her ex-husband's *** and changed the mobile phone card to another mobile phone.
Start a new life in a new city, no longer need a mobile phone card, and feel extremely comfortable. He was overjoyed to learn that his successful revenge had cost him his job and his reputation. From now on, you don't have to spend time on him, and you have to arrange your life and your daughter's life well.
Last week, Ms. Xiao sent evidence to her ex-husband's company to prove his cheating behavior, including shopping with Xiao San, cuddling, opening a hotel room, and chat logs. As a result, her ex-husband lost his job and contacted Ms. Xiao angrily to get revenge.
Fortunately, Ms. Xiao was prepared, sold her hometown house, and took her parents and daughter to a strange city, without telling anyone their address.
Apart from this number, the ex-husband had no way to find Ms. Xiao and could no longer cause harm to her.
Some people may think that I am too vicious, and I will not let my ex-husband go even if I get divorced, and I must let him lose his job before I stop. However, they don't know the truth, they always speak from the perspective of a bystander, they haven't experienced it personally, this kind of person must not get close, otherwise when God punishes them, it may affect you.
Ms. Xiao insisted on taking revenge on her ex-husband and making him lose his job even if he was divorced, for the simple reason that her ex-husband was too cruel to her during the marriage, which made her suffer humiliation and hurt.
Her four-year married life with her ex-husband is like a tragedy, which makes people laugh out loud. Four years ago, when I was about to marry him, both my parents and my friends were adamantly against it because he was a phoenix man.
They believe that a phoenix man cannot be married.
Mr. Chen came from a poor background, and his parents worked as farmers, so they had a hard life. This hard life experience made him calm, hard-working, studious and calculating. In his relationship with Ms. Xiao, he cleverly used Ms. Xiao's parents to convince Ms. Xiao that only Mr. Chen was true love and did not talk about money.
In the end, Ms. Xiao got married naked, just because she believed that true love didn't need to talk about money. She became a stay-at-home wife in order to support Mr. Chen's career, and gave up herself for his parents.
Now, Ms. Xiao regrets it, and she hopes to go back to the past, wake up in time, and no longer be carried away by love.
03.Mr. Chen has repeatedly said that his goal in his career is to create better living conditions for Ms. Xiao and her future children. Ms. Xiao was convinced, so she gave up her job, did her best to take care of the family, was very filial to Mr. Chen's parents, and gave birth to a daughter for Mr. Chen.
However, after four years of marriage, she still has to rent a house. When she asked Mr. Chen about buying a house, Mr. Chen told her that the current market is not good, the company's efficiency is not high, and the salary income is limited.
He also said that he hopes to buy a school district house for the city's top three key elementary schools so that his daughter can win at the starting line and avoid her repeating their past hardships.
Ms. Xiao believed Mr. Chen, so she was careful in her daily life, hoping to realize her wish to buy a house before her daughter went to school. However, when Ms. Xiao found out that Mr. Chen had a third party outside and betrayed her and her marriage, she realized that Mr. Chen was not really buying a house for his daughter, but spent all his savings on Xiao San.
This made Ms. Xiao very angry, so she questioned Mr. Chen.
Mr. Chen couldn't deny the truth because he was photographed by Ms. Xiao with Xiao San, but his attitude was extremely arrogant, and he even spoke wildly. He believes that it is normal for men to have more than one woman outside, and that women should put up with men's affairs.
He threatened that if women did not agree to his demands and left him, they would not be able to survive. He also considered prosecuting the other party for bigamy, but decided to divorce because of the complexity of the crime and the low success rate.
His words and actions have deeply hurt women and made the public question his morality.
Mr. Chen and Ms. Xiao are divorced and do not have any joint property. Although Ms. Xiao was eager to take revenge on him, she understood that she had to protect herself and her family first. So she returned to her parents' home and received support from her parents.
Her parents sold their hometown house and accompanied her to a strange city to start over. Ms. Xiao also sent evidence of her husband's cheating to his company, causing him to lose his job.
Although Ms. Xiao made a big mistake, at least she dared to stop the loss in time, seek a way out for herself, and seek justice for herself. Therefore, she has the ability to make herself happy by her own efforts.
Don't challenge humanity and don't hope for someone else, because you are only a part of his past, he has succeeded and does not want to reminisce about the past, so you have to be abandoned.
It's better to rely on yourself and create happiness for yourself.
end.Fengyun looks forward to your insight: What do you think of Ms. Xiao's approach? Please share your views in the comments section.