Recently, a divorced woman in Guangdong took her children back to her parents' house for the New Year, but was kicked out of her home due to local customs, which attracted widespread attention. The woman had nowhere else to go after the divorce but to return to her parents' home with her young daughter. She did not receive the support and understanding of her family, but was disliked by her sister-in-law and driven away by her brother. In the end, she left the house with her children, and her lonely back was heart-wrenching.
Regarding this incident, netizens' opinions are also mixed. Some people think that if you meet such an brother and sister-in-law, it is really a very lucky thing. But there are also some people who condemn the indifference and ruthlessness of this mother's family. Some netizens believe that a woman is not treated by her in-laws, nor is she accepted by her mother-in-law, this must be the woman's own. There are also some people who start from the woman's experience and persuade female friends not to divorce easily.
In fact, whether you can go back to your parents' house after divorce depends on the attitude of your mother's family. If there are no brothers and sisters in the mother's family, and the parents agree, they can go back to their parents' house. However, if there are siblings in the mother's family, parents and brothers do not agree, and local customs do not allow it, it is better not to think about staying in the mother's house for a long time. It's okay to stay for a short period of time, and it's better to go out and rent a house by yourself for a long time.
Of course, no matter what, I still hope that everyone will not divorce easily. After getting married, you must manage your marriage carefully and diligently, so that it is the best. It's also the best for kids and parents. In the end, no matter how this matter develops, I just hope that this woman can get up, recover as soon as possible, be strong, manage the future with her heart, and take care of herself and her children, better than anything else.
So what principles do you think should be followed when returning to your parents' home for the New Year after divorce? Welcome to leave a message to discuss!