The essence of love is an attraction from the inside out.
Some people, when they see you, will be heartbroken; Some people will see the sea of stars in your eyes.
When you fall in love with someone, you can't help but want to be close to her, understand her, and protect her.
It's an instinct and a subconscious.
When a man is truly in love with a woman, he can't help but do these three things for her.
Change yourself for you.
The best relationship is not to change each other, but to grow together. ”
Everyone hopes that they can meet a person who is full of themselves, which is human nature.
But in the world of feelings, there are not so many standard answers.
Many times, a man is willing to change himself for you, not because he has changed, but because he can no longer stick to his principles and bottom line.
There was a time when a friend was talking to me and said that she was distressed by one of her boyfriend's problems: "I really think he's good, but he still doesn't want to change himself for me." ”
I asked her at the time, "How do you know he's changed for you?" ”
"Because he's been with me for so long, I feel like it's time for the two of us to be together for so long," she said. ”
Later, she broke up with her boyfriend.
originally thought that the two of them would continue like this forever, but she didn't expect to hear that they broke up soon after.
Because her boyfriend spends all his energy on his career and no longer cares about her feelings.
Since then, she has never mentioned marriage to her boyfriend.
Gives you a sense of security.
In a relationship, a person's sense of security often comes from the people closest to him.
Such as parents, lovers, children, friends.
When a man falls in love with a woman, his heart will unconsciously want to give you the best things and the most gentle appearance.
In his eyes, you are the best person in this world, and he wants to give you the best sense of security in the world.
Because I love you so much, I can't help but pay attention to you.
He will always pay attention to your dynamics, and when you are wronged or encounter something unhappy outside, he will come to you as soon as possible to comfort and hug you.
Because he loves you, he is willing to give everything for you; Because he loves you, he is willing to shelter you from the wind and rain.
When you truly love someone, that person will unconsciously show the best of themselves to the other person.
Because he loves someone, he will be very afraid of losing the other person; Because he loves someone, he can't help but pamper her and take care of her.
Willing to pay for you.
Many women say that if they want to know whether a man loves him or not, it depends on whether he takes care of himself when he is sick.
Actually, this statement is not accurate.
If a man will always ask you if you are in pain when you are sick, he will not comfort you, and even deliberately pretend not to care.
Such a man, it's not because he's too selfish, it's that he doesn't love you that much at all.
A man who truly loves you will have a sense of responsibility and responsibility for you. Whether you are sick or not, he will always take care of you.
A man who truly loves you can't bear to let you be wronged alone.
He will take care of his body in normal times, and he will also do his best to help you solve problems when things come into trouble.
He will do everything he can to be nice to you and give you a sense of security. Even if your life is not easy, you must make sure that you have no worries about food and clothing.
Whether a man loves you or not, it's actually obvious.