I communicated with many colleagues on this business trip and found some problems, which are summarized here.
1.Today's young people pay more attention to the feel of work. How do you understand somatosensory? It's that I can work hard and work hard, but I can't be too stressed, I can't work overtime, and the most important thing is to do things that make me feel fulfilled. Although it is said that the post-00s don't care about everything and come to rectify the workplace, in fact, most people care about money very much, and only the richer classmates are better.
2.Marriage has become a big problem for young people nowadays. Nowadays, young people, especially those around them, are doing technology, their personalities are introverted, their families are not so urging, they have no concept of marriage, and they do not have a strong goal, and even communicating with girls feels like a waste of time, so it is better to play games and take a break.
3.The post-80s generation is easy to be played by PUA, 90 and 00. They don't have much money, but they don't sacrifice their senses for money.
4.Common problems have always existed. If you don't know the meaning and value of your life, it's easy to waste your time on things that don't mean to you, and you are unhappy after wasting it, how can you make up for it? Different people are different, eat, drink, and spend money. Because the commercialization is too strong now, constantly pondering human nature, grasping the weaknesses of human nature to attract you, and finally you are **, it seems that you have temporarily satisfied your heart, but in fact, you have gone up an infinite loop of stairs. Due to commercialization, you want to keep making money, make more money to have a sense of security, and even feel that if you make xx money in the future, you can do what you like, but you are completely deceived, because you will find that you will never be satisfied, of course, there is a high probability that you will not be able to earn the money you think in your heart. Even if a small number of people reach it, maybe the grade is older, the children are older, and the parents may leave us, and the happy life that we wanted to live seems to be gone, or there is no chance, because other people or the world will not stay where you are waiting to make enough money.
What to do? Life should be like all living beings, the old bring the new, and the new bring the young to constantly tell them that they should do this based on their own experience, right? Is there a way to crack it?
To be honest, the above four problems are difficult to solve, but the fourth problem is the most critical.
In fact, there is a way to crack it, that is, you have to find your PFE (purpose for existing). Why do you exist? What is the purpose of your existence, what is the value of it? Have you thought about it?
If you are doing what you like every day, the most valuable and meaningful thing for your life, then you will be very fulfilling every day, once your heart is satisfied, you will not have no resistance to commercialization, and naturally you will not feel that you must make enough money to make it, and finally you are living every day according to the life you want to live in the future, fulfilling, valuable, willing, and happy. Positive cycle, because you do what you love every day, you will definitely achieve something, and you will also earn a lot of money with it.
Life needs to be thought about and experienced, and both are indispensable. Give yourself some time, leave some blank space in your life, think, experience, maybe today is your epiphany moment, so as to move towards the road to happiness.