received a private message, the content is not complicated, but you can feel her entanglement.
The girl said,I miss my ex so much, should I take the initiative to contact the other party?
I don't know what is the first thing that comes to mind when you see this question?
In my opinion, after the breakup, if you still miss your ex very much, have you thought about getting back togetherThen it's best to take the initiative to contact the other party so as not to leave regrets.
However, sometimes, life is full of all kinds of helplessness, and some breakups are really breakups, not that they want to get back together.
Therefore, whether to take the initiative to contact your ex after the breakup has to be judged based on the actual situation.
1.Before you connect, ask yourself.
Before deciding whether or not you want to contact your ex, there is one thing that you must figure out, what do you want to contact him for?
Are you still deeply in love with each other and want to get back together? Or is it that after the breakup, you can't find sustenance emotionally, so you think of the other person?
After figuring out your motives, you have to think about one thing clearly, take the initiative to contact him, what do you want to talk about?
Do you want to see if there is a chance to get back together, or do you want to chat about family things by the way? What do you have to do if the response isn't enthusiastic enough?
Contacting your ex after a breakup is a very delicate matter, so before acting, you should think carefully about the various problems that may arise.
2.I can't bear it, I don't need to endure it anymore.
If you really miss the other person and want to take the initiative to contact him, then act decisively.
You must know that if you hold back this kind of longing for too long, it will really suffocate people.
Some emotions, when it is time to resolve, don't block them, don't make yourself depressed.
Of course, when contacting the other party, try to control your emotions, don't resent, and don't sell miserably.
Try to treat it with a normal heart and chat well, the effect may be better.
Find a more natural excuse, and then talk briefly about homely things first, and then think about anything else.
3.It's okay to tempt, but don't dwell on it.
When contacting your ex, you can test the other person's heart.
See if the other person is like you and has the same willingness to get back together.
Remember, temptation is okay, but don't force it, and don't humble yourself to get back together.
It is important to understand that a healthy relationship requires the joint efforts of both parties, and wishful thinking alone is far from enough.
So, if the other person doesn't want to get back together, you have to respect his decision.
Entanglement will only make both sides more miserable.
4.I am fortunate to have gained, but I have lost my life.
After working hard, no matter how it ends, you have to accept it.
If the ending is good, you have to learn to cherish and manage this lost and regained relationship well.
However, if it doesn't end up as you want, you also have to learn to let go.
You must understand that in this life, there will always be ups and downs.
Reality is sometimes cruel, and there are some things, no matter how hard you try, the ending may not be too satisfyingWhat you can do is that you have no regrets if you work hard.
If failure is inevitable, learn from it and make yourself stronger.
Actually,It's normal to contact your ex after a breakup.
After all, they have loved each other, how can it be so easy to say that they will let go.
Unless the objective conditions really do not allow it, otherwise, the contact should be contacted, the compound compound, do not hesitate for too long, so as not to miss the best composite window.
Finally, I want to say that,After a breakup, don't say goodbye easily.
Because there is a goodbye, there is really no ...... again