Not to mention a girl in love, even a woman who has been married for many years will often ask herself: Does this man who gets along with him love me day and night? We don't have the ability to read minds, we don't know what the other person is thinking in their hearts, and that kind of relationship is always unpredictable, and over time it makes you fall into the pain of choosing whether to leave or not.
Feelings are to be paid, if you love someone, you will care about a person's bits and pieces, about whether he loves you or not? Is it worth your effort? It's enough to look at these four things.
1. Attitude after a quarrel
As the saying goes: "Husband and wife quarrel at the end of the bed and." "Whether it is a couple or a couple, no matter how good the relationship is, it is inevitable that there will be quarrels. After a quarrel, if someone really understands you, they won't let you spend the night with emotions. I feel sorry for you, so I don't want you to be sad. In his eyes, you are more important than everything, including right and wrong. When the mood is calm, he will come to coax you as soon as possible, because he can't see you sad and sad.
2. The speed of replying to your messages
Girls in love, wish the boy was on call 24 hours a day, on call, whether at rest or work, idle or busy, when she heard the prompt of the message, she would immediately pick up her mobile phone and check the reply. Of course, this is just a wish, and many girls will not be unreasonable and understand each other.
But if he has you in his heart, he must wonder if you are also thinking about him, he will often check the information, and he will reply to you as soon as he sees your message, and he wants to chat with you more, so that you can't feel the distance of time and space.
3. The amount of money spent for you
Sanmao said: "If marriage cannot be implemented in such trivial matters as eating, dressing, and counting money, it cannot last long." ”
It doesn't matter how much money a man can make, it depends on whether he is willing to spend money for you and give you money to spend.
My best friend's husband has a lot of income, he is a public official, and he has a stable income, but her own income is not high. When the two were in love, they once went to the supermarket, and their girlfriend wanted to buy a carton of milk, but his husband reluctantly put it in the shopping cart, and nagged from time to time when checking out that it was too much to buy a carton at once. As a result, after getting married, the two always quarreled over trivial matters, and the marriage was on the verge of collapse.
Although money can't buy love, it can measure the depth of love.
4. The degree to which you are tolerated
Two people always quarrel together, there must be something wrong with one party, but it also proves that the other party is not tolerant enough.
As long as people will have shortcomings, they will make mistakes, as a man should be more tolerant than women, and will not babble about a small mistake.
Even if those shortcomings are as many as the stars in the sky, isn't it precisely the merits that he fell in love with you at that time? This advantage is like the sun in the sky, when the sun comes out, can you still see the stars?
In this world, there is no perfect person, a man loves you and accepts both your strengths and your shortcomings. Enjoy the sunshine you bring to him, but also bear the wind and rain you bring to him.
Even if he knows that you are not good enough, he is willing to give you enough tolerance and love to accompany you to get better slowly.
In the process of getting along and running-in, love can be verified.