In the labyrinth of marriage, we often wonder where we are most likely to lose our way. Perhaps, we focus too much on the obvious, such as the passage of time or external issues, and ignore that the real challenges in marriage often come from our own hearts.
A strong marriage is like a mountain that cannot be easily shaken by the outside world. And the problems in marriage are often our own inner struggles and imbalances. Divorce, for those women who choose to leave with their children, may be an unforgettable journey.
After experiencing the ups and downs of marriage, I deeply realized that marriage is not a one-sided dependence, but a shared responsibility and dedication of both parties. Money is important, but what is more important is how we manage and maintain the relationship. We can't just rely on each other to meet our needs, but learn to be independent and autonomous in marriage.
At the same time, the bottom line in marriage is just as important as self-esteem. If we feel that we have lost our dignity and worth in our marriage, then the marriage may have lost its proper meaning. We must not sacrifice our dignity and bottom line in order to maintain superficial harmony, we must learn to face problems bravely and find solutions.
Marriage is a long-distance race that requires the joint efforts and dedication of both parties. It is only on the basis of mutual respect, understanding and support that we can go through this journey together. I hope that my experience can bring some inspiration and help to women who are entering or about to enter marriage, so that they can find their own happiness and fulfillment in marriage.