In traditional Chinese culture, the second day of the first lunar month is regarded as the day when the son-in-law returns to his parents' home. On this day, sons-in-law in many places will drive back to their wives' homes and bring New Year's goods as gifts to express their respect and blessings to their fathers-in-law. However, for some out-of-town sons-in-law, it may feel a little lonely and helpless in this unfamiliar environment, as they may not have familiar friends and loved ones.
At the mother-in-law's house, these sons-in-law may adopt some uniform approach to this awkward situation. They may look at the sky, their hands in their pockets, and no one to talk to; Or become good friends with the pets at home and play with them to kill time; Or just play with your phone boringly and get through the long day.
Netizens also expressed their opinions on this phenomenon. Some netizens believe that the daughter-in-law works as a nanny at her in-law's house, while the son-in-law is as leisurely as a first-class guest, so she should switch roles to experience it. Other netizens said that they had a very good time at their mother-in-law's house and did not even want to leave. Some netizens hope that their daughter-in-law can enjoy the same treatment when she returns to her mother-in-law's house.
Although some sons-in-law may find it difficult, they should still do their best to integrate into the family, respecting and understanding the family's culture and customs. Only in this way can they establish true family affection and friendship, making the family more harmonious and warm.
We should look at this phenomenon with openness and understanding. Everyone has their own experiences and feelings, and we should respect and understand each other's differences. At the same time, we should also learn to empathize and look at problems from the perspective of others, so that we can better understand and tolerate each other's differences.
In general, although some sons-in-law may feel lonely and helpless, they should still try their best to integrate into the family, respect and understand the culture and habits of the family. At the same time, we should also look at this phenomenon with an open and understanding attitude, respecting and understanding each other's differences.