Ambiguity is like poison wrapped in a colored plastic coat.
People can't help but be attracted to him and guided by him.
People who are dominated by personal ambiguity are often unhappy. Because there is only love in his eyes.
It's important that you understand that ambiguity isn't just something you want to do. If things don't go well, you can easily be abandoned by others.
Especially if you can't do the following three things:
Is ambiguity really a great love? Actually, it doesn't have to be a product to soothe loneliness.
Only having an ambiguous relationship with someone when you are lonely, or doing ambiguous things, is the spice of life when you are bored.
If it is said too strictly, the ambiguity will not last long.
My friend Lanzi confided in a man his conflicting feelings.
The two get along well at first, but then Lanzi feels that the other party has nothing to give him, and he is sneaky every day.
So Lanzi wanted to give up, but at this time, when she talked to the other party, her attitude was very resolute.
For example, when the other person asks, "Have you eaten?" Lanzi replied, "Yes." ”
Another person asked, "What are you doing?" Lanzi replied, "I'm working." ”
All chats are like this, and a lot of topics end up like this.
I scolded the other party for not taking the initiative to chat, and the ambiguous relationship slowly ended.
In an ambiguous relationship, both partners seek comfort and ease. Without these two points, your words will become too strong, and the relationship will naturally end prematurely.
In an ambiguous relationship, if you don't take the initiative and always wait for the other person to take the initiative, the other person will become very tired of the relationship.
When Wang Ning has a relationship with an ambiguous object, Wang Ning never speaks, and does whatever the other party says.
After all, the other party is not a lover, so Wang Ning does not rely on the other party.
You have to figure everything out on your own, and you always have to talk to each other.
Wang Ning's attitude made the other party very uncomfortable, and even had a feeling of being chased and killed.
At first he also complained about Wang Ning, but as time went on, he began to stop contacting her.
The scariest thing is to vaguely ask someone to do something, make them feel uncomfortable, or force them to do something.
If the other person feels this way, they are bound to fall in love and the relationship ends immediately.
The most terrifying thing about ambiguity is that it can develop into a bright relationship. It is a relationship of mutual acquiescence and is not bright. If one side tries to develop, there will inevitably be problems in the relationship between the two countries.
Kang Ting has an ambiguous partner. They have been dating for over a year. Kang Ting didn't know how long the relationship would last.
After all, he is getting older and older year by year, but the other party has always had this attitude.
Subsequently, Kang Ting said that she wanted to make her relationship public and get married. The man didn't expect Mr. Kangding to have such a plan. Perhaps he intended to spend the rest of his life in obscurity.
When he learned that Kang Ting was going to get married, he immediately stopped contact with Kang Ting.
Ambiguity actually means no love.
Love will definitely give you an identity, make you right, and give you a future. Only someone who doesn't have love would want someone like you.
The important thing is that you will not feel happy even with such a person.
If you want to maintain an ambiguous relationship, don't do the above three things. However, it is best not to maintain an ambiguous relationship.
Instead of continuing such a relationship, it is better to give up and choose a brighter one.