First of all, let's make it clear that whether to marry or not is a personal choice, and there is no fixed standard or model. Everyone has different views and expectations about life, love, and marriage. Therefore, the behavior of older leftover men and women who do not want to marry cannot simply be attributed to psychological problems.
In modern society, with the acceleration of the pace of life and the openness of people's ideas, more and more people have begun to pay more attention to personal growth and development, rather than traditional family roles and responsibilities. This can lead some people to choose to postpone or forgo marriage in order to better pursue their careers, hobbies, or personal goals. This is entirely a normal life choice, not a manifestation of psychological problems.
Of course, it cannot be ruled out that some people have psychological distress or obstacles when facing marital problems. For example, some people may have fearful or distrustful attitudes toward marriage because of past relationship experiences or family background; Still others may lack self-confidence or social skills, making it difficult to find the right partner. In these cases, it is necessary to seek professional psychological counseling or ** to help them solve their psychological problems and better face the challenges of marriage and life.
In short, the fact that older men and women do not want to get married does not necessarily mean that there is something wrong with them. Everyone's life trajectory and choices are unique, and we should respect and understand each other's differences. At the same time, we should also give care and support to those who do have psychological distress to help them get out of their difficulties and find their own happiness.