Back toRuralDuring the Chinese New Year, you can feel the lively atmosphere in the village, with cars parked at the door of every house, people scattering cigarettes one after another, and the atmosphere of comparison is getting stronger and stronger. Men began to compare cars, houses, incomes and families, while women compared jewelry, cosmetics, body maintenance, in-laws status and children's well-behaved. It was as if it had become the center of their lives. Although everyone knows the situation of each family very well, they still have to make their money suffer for the sake of face. What exactly are they trying to do for the sake of face?What are the factors that have led to the current climate of comparison?Is there a similar situation in your village?By listening to the stories of netizens, we can take a look.
Every year when I go home for the New Year,RuralThe people were elated to return to the village, leaving the originally emptyRuralIt becomes lively. Over time, people's living conditions have become better and better, including:Ruralin. I don't know when a car was parked in front of every house, and people who returned to the village would scatter cigarettes when they met, and the cigarettes that used to cost only 20 yuan to buy a pack of cigarettes were no longer in line with the trend, and now, the top brand cigarettes have becomeRuralA status symbol for young people returning to the village. The men sat together and began to compare their cars, houses, incomes, and family situations, while the women got together to compare the amount of jewelry, the brand of cosmetics, the level of fitness, the status of the in-laws, and the obedience of the children. It's as if these material comforts are the focus of their lives. Although everyone knows the real situation of each family very well in their hearts, for the sake of face, they have to let their money suffer. And in order to save face, what exactly are they for?What is the reason for the current trend of comparison?Does this also happen in your village?Let's listen to the stories of netizens and uncover the truth of all this.
NowSocialMaterial enjoyment is no longer a scarce commodity, but people's demand for comparison is becoming more and more urgent. RuralWhen people return to the village for the Chinese New Year, they will bring back a kind of face-seeking psychology, and they are eager to win the recognition of others with their "achievements". It is often said that thirty years to see the Son and respect the Father, but for thatRuralAs far as people are concerned, their situation with each other has long been clear. In order to save face, they choose to slap their swollen faces and become fat, and are willing to make money suffer for the sake of comparison. What is this for?YesSocialIs it a change in the atmosphere or a change in the mentality of personal pursuit?Do we have such people around us?With the help of the stories of netizens, let's take a look.
NowadaysSocialMaterial enjoyment is no longer a scarce commodity, however, the desire to compare is getting stronger and stronger. WhenRuralWhen people return to their villages for the Chinese New Year, they carry with them an eager desire to save face, and they are eager to win the recognition of others by showing their "achievements". Although it is often said that thirty years to see the son and respect the father, for these nativesRuralIt is already commonplace for people to know each other's family situations. In order to save face, they are willing to slap their swollen faces and become fat, and would rather let their money suffer for the sake of comparison. What is the purpose of such an act?YesSocialIs it a change in the atmosphere or a change in the mentality of individual pursuits?Are there such people around us?By listening to the stories of netizens, we may be able to find the answer.
Some netizens believe that the desire to compare stems from people's desire for face, and they have climbed, and at the same time, they also hope that others will be envious and jealous. And for some, this is exactly what satisfies their vanityInner world。In the present daySocialHuaziIt is no longer possible to satisfy the inflated vanity of these people, and now the popular ones are thousands of yuan a cigarette. And when it comes to playing mahjong, many people will start with a hundred yuan, for example, in Hubei, the same way of playing. During the overnight, someone lost tens of thousands of yuan. However, they themselves don't seem to care. This phenomenon is confusing, and poverty seems to limit their imagination of life. At the same time, there are also many young people around who go out to work, constantly working overtime, and can get a salary of five or six thousand yuan a month, and it takes more than 200,000 yuan to buy a car, and the cost of maintaining a car for a year is also one or two thousand yuan. They don't quite understand these phenomena, they don't understand what they are trying to doThose who can't afford to keep a car but buy it back and park it at home, and cover it with a car cover, just to save face. As a netizen said, no matter how big the boss is, he has to work when he returns to the village, what do you pretend?Who doesn't know each other's situation?Smart people like to keep a low profile and keep good things for themselves to enjoy, but they give people a low-key image to the outside world. For the older generation, they pay more attention to face, because only once a year the children will go home for the Chinese New Year, and if the children are promising, they will have face in the village. There are also many elderly people who are reluctant to smoke good cigarettes and drink good wine, but they will take out the good cigarettes and wine sent by relatives to their children to visit relatives, trying to find a sense of existence in the circle of relatives. Some people with a monthly salary of two or three thousand yuan go home and take a plane, and this phenomenon has become quite common. In short, hating you and laughing at you is the norm of life. Although it's not wrong to keep a low profile, you should also properly let others know your strength, after all, there are too many snobbish people who hate the poor and love the rich, especially in theRuralRegion. Everyone has their own way of life and ideas, and it is impossible to criticize and criticize the actions of others. Life is like this, there is nothing that is not okay, only what is worth it or not, and the answer only exists in everyone's heart.