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From this point, it can be seen that gifts are not only a kind of etiquette, but also a means to measure personal quality and deal with things. Some people always like to use "careful eyes" to measure "big", and use "gifts" to show their cunning and scheming. However, such a short-sighted approach is unpopular. They often try to set up as many tables as possible when people are entertaining, so as to receive more gifts, and sometimes they are politely refused. However, such a small fuss, in addition to being disgusting, also damages one's reputation. In contrast, there are people who value friendship more and value gifts more than ordinary friendship and understanding. This sincere friendship is very precious, and we need to cherish it and tie it firmly together.
People of high intelligence are good at giving gifts. There are not many such people, but they know the meaning of gifts very well. They treat others as their own relatives and others as their own relatives, and they always remember them. They always give each other an unexpected surprise on each other's special days, or something valuable, or a rare treasure, or a hobby that suits them, which deeply touches each other's hearts. They are very knowledgeable about society, they are both talented and sincere, and they are really cultivated talents.
A person's attitude towards gifts can be judged by his realm and upbringing. Most people are courteous. Some people, after reaching a certain point, will give away something more valuable and meaningful as a sign of their generosity and sincerity. However, some people regard "gifts" as a tool for "making money" and "staying in the party for personal gain," and there is really nothing for such people to associate with. We must get back what we have given us, lest they succeed. You can't let them take advantage of it every day.
When it comes to giving gifts, it varies from person to person, and the level of expression and norms varies. For individuals, gift-giving is a person's cultural literacy and means of dealing with things. Judging by a person's gift performance, he is not very intelligent, nor does he value friendship very much, and it is not known whether he has a high IQ. Those who are scheming and scheming can do anything to achieve their goals, but such methods are often only temporary, and they are easy to attract annoyance and leave a bad impression. On the other hand, those who value friendship tend to give more gifts in order to show their sincerity and generosity. A wise person not only understands the meaning of giving gifts, but also knows how to make a deep impression on others by making promises with their hearts. They pay great attention to interpersonal relationships, and every time they give gifts, they have to do it seriously, showing a high level of education and sincerity. In communication, we learn to judge the level and level of the other person through this small action before making a choice.
To put it simply, the method of giving gifts can actually reflect a person's personality. Scheming people often only look out for their own short-term interests and do not care about long-term plans. And those who value friendship, every time they send a gift, they are sincere and generous. Wise people always find a balance between short-term and long-term development, and the gifts they give reflect their high interpersonal skills and sincerity. Therefore, when we communicate, we should pay attention to the use of gifts to understand the customs and habits of the other party, and then consider whether to communicate with the other person.