In our society, whenever an extreme crime occurs, in addition to the harm suffered by the victim and his family, ** and his family are often plunged into great suffering. This is not only because they have to face the punishment of the law, but also because they have to bear the condemnation of society and the guilt in their hearts. What is particularly heart-wrenching is that these people who embark on the road of crime are often the pride of their families and the elite of society.
The two most recent cases, the shooting of a tutor by a Chinese student in the United States and the murder of the party secretary of Fudan University by a Fudan University teacher, are shocking and vicious incidents. The ** in these two cases are highly educated and outstanding academic talents, who used to be the hope of their families and the future of society. Their families must have been proud of them, but who could have foreseen the twists and pains deep within them?
Such tragedies make us ponder: what causes these extreme acts? Is it social pressure, individual psychological problems, or the lack of family education?
Family education plays a vital role in the growth of a person. Parents are their children's first teachers, and their words and deeds and education methods directly affect their children's character and values. Academic performance is important, but children's mental health and personality integrity are the top priorities of family education.
Parents need to recognize that it's not enough to just focus on their child's academic performance. Children need more love, understanding, and support, especially when they are experiencing setbacks and difficulties. Parents should encourage their children to face problems and solve them, rather than running away from them. At the same time, parents also need to cultivate empathy and social responsibility in their children, so that they can learn to respect others and care about society.
In addition, parents also need to pay attention to their children's mental health. If the child has psychological problems such as anxiety and depression, parents should seek professional help in time to avoid the problem from worsening. At the same time, parents should also learn to listen to their children's voices, understand their inner world, and help them relieve stress.
In conclusion, the lack of family education is one of the important reasons that lead these people to embark on the road of crime. It is hoped that parents can learn from these tragedies, pay attention to the all-round growth of their children, and help them shape healthy personalities and values.