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Minglan was painstakingly married back to the Hou Mansion by Gu Tingye, and began to take charge of all affairs.
Hard-earned things are always cherished. Gu Tingye did love Minglan very much, but Minglan was not arrogant.
On the contrary, he regards Gu Tingye as his own owner, and everything is headed by doing his job as a lady.
So, why didn't Minglan treat Gu Tingye as a husband, but treat him as an owner?
When Minglan was a child, she followed Wei Xiaoniang in Shengfu to live a life of not having enough food and clothing.
Because Minglan threw the pot to help Hua Lan win the hired goose, and did not disgrace the Sheng family, Sheng Hong remembered to go to see Wei Xiaoniang and Minglan after being reminded by his grandmother.
Minglan pinned all her hopes on her father, hoping that he could solve their problem of lack of food and clothing.
However, instead of solving the problem, Sheng Hong breeds more and bigger problems, and the loyal Fluttershy is framed for stealing.
In order to save Fluttershy's life, Wei Xiaoniang asks Sheng Hong to kick her out.
Because there were no loyal and capable people around her, it indirectly led to Wei Xiaoniang's death in childbirth without being treated by the doctor in time when she gave birth.
This incident is unforgettable for Minglan as a lesson, she knows that blindly counting on others will not only fail to solve things, but will also make herself suffer a big loss in the end.
Although Minglan is cautious in small things, for the first time in her life, she faced the fierce pursuit of an excellent man, and she couldn't bear the other party's unwavering overtures.
When Minglan and the little grandfather were alone in the temple room, she heard the other party say that she wanted to marry her as the eldest lady in a sedan chair, and Minglan broke the defense.
tacitly agreed to associate with the little grandfather, and waited for him to propose to his parents the news of going to the Sheng family for employment.
However, Minglan who had expected the little grandfather to marry her as his wife, not only did she not wait for the news of her next appointment, but when the little grandfather abandoned her, he didn't even say hello in advance.
Minglan still heard the news that the little grandfather was about to get married from the mouths of others, and she endured all the gossip alone.
It was probably the thing that hurt her the most and taught her not to expect too much from others in everything.
Even if you can't count too much and too deeply, if you have hope, you will look forward to it, and once your expectations are not met, you will feel resentment, and your life will be all messed up, so the gains outweigh the losses.
Minglan has been accustomed to relying on herself as much as possible since she was a child, and she will not open her mouth if she can not trouble others. After all, past life experience has taught her that it is unreliable to expect others whenever and wherever she is.
Thinking that at the beginning, the three sisters broke into the front hall together and abruptly attacked the guests, Sheng Hong punished Rulan and Minglan for playing hands, Rulan was unconvinced and asked Minglan to tell the truth, and Mo Lan, who took the lead in going to the front hall, was also punished.
After some struggle, Minglan whispered the ins and outs of the matter, hoping that her father could deal with the three sisters fairly.
However, Sheng Hong, who listened to the truth of the matter, did not uphold justice, but punished Rulan and Minglan more severely and made them kneel in the ancestral hall.
Later, Minglan learned from Aunt Wei that her little mother died in childbirth.
Minglan privately mentioned to her father that she wanted to do a ritual for Xiaoniang and use his blood to draw a tablet for Wei Xiaoniang, but Sheng Hong, who was shocked, decisively refused.
Minglan who did not give up proposed again that she wanted her father to go to the scene to go to the town, but Sheng Hong refused without thinking about it.
The consequences of counting on others mean that there is a high probability of sadness and disappointment, and you have to be reliable at critical moments.
If Minglan relies on Gu Tingye for everything after getting married, she will not be able to grow up herself, and she will not be able to become the eldest lady of the Hou Mansion who can take charge of herself.
The surrounding environment also does not allow her to hide behind Gu Tingye at all times and be a weak and bullying little daughter-in-law.
Otherwise, Minglan would have been killed by the open guns and arrows in the Hou Mansion many times, not to mention letting her run around for Gu Tingye who was in prison later.
In the end, in that era, the husband was the world on which a woman depended to survive, and marrying someone was equivalent to a woman's second reincarnation.
However, Minglan has been immersed in thousands of years of culture in books since she was a child, and she has long seen all kinds of life in the world.
She knows that women are no worse than men, and even if they are married, they can choose how to spend their lives.
No matter how good others are to themselves, they can't rely on everything, otherwise, when they don't want to be good to you, they will take it all back and cancel their kindness to you at any time.
In the end, you lose not only the good of the other person, but also your ability to live a good life on your own. February** Dynamic Incentive Program
Author: Yun Duo, the post-90s generation who focuses on marriage and family emotions, may we all reap happiness and joy in a harmonious and intimate relationship.
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