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Valentine's Day is indeed a special day for a couple of lovers to show their affection and care for each other. However, you can't judge whether a man truly loves you or treats you as a "spare tire" based on this day alone. Love needs to be based on long-term trust, respect and understanding, not just on a specific day.
Everyone has their own way of expressing affection and care, and some people may not be very good at expressing emotions during a particular holiday, but that doesn't mean they don't love you or use you as a spare tire. Love is a complex and multi-dimensional emotional experience, and it cannot be judged comprehensively based on the performance of a single holiday.
If you have questions about the man's attitude and the way he treats the relationship, it is recommended that you communicate with him
Listen attentively to the other person's thoughts and feelings, as well as express your own expectations and needs. It is only through sincere communication and mutual understanding that a solid and healthy emotional foundation can be established.
The most important thing is to trust your instincts and feelings, and if you feel that you are being treated as a spare tire by the other person or are not being cared for and respected as you deserve, then you need to seriously consider whether or not to continue to develop a relationship with this person. Everyone should be treated and cherished with sincerity and should not put up with unhealthy relationships.