Zhu Zhiwen didn't expect that he would be able to realize his ** dream after middle age, he was an ordinary worker from the grassroots class, and by chance joined the popular talent show Avenue of Stars. At the beginning of the show, Zhu Zhiwen, who wanted to shine on the stage, was both excited and nervous. His hands trembled slightly during the rehearsal, for fear that he would face the fate of being eliminated on the spot after the end of the song. Zhu Zhiwen walked through the narrow aisle and walked onto the stage babblingly, dressed in an ironed coat, like a traveler about to set off. When the red light came on, he deeply inhaled this shocking moment, and sang in a loud voice the scene of the travelers waiting for the train at the station missing their hometown. There was silence in the audience, and Zhu Zhiwen was full of complex emotions as if he had overturned the color palette. His deep voice was like a gentle wave of the sea, and his singing echoed over the stage, tear-jerking. Zhu Zhiwen's song "On the Shore of Lake Baikal" shocked everyone. The judges were all impressed, and at this moment, an all-round singer was officially born! One after another, the applause and cheers around came one after another, and the audience clasped their fingers, as if to convey this excitement into their hearts. This seamless singing made Zhu Zhiwen the biggest dark horse of the night. An ordinary middle-aged man who was originally unknown shines brightly in front of the TV screen. His high-spirited singing voice quickly spread widely on the Internet, and millions of people went crazy about it. After becoming famous in World War I, Zhu Zhiwen's popularity has been rising, and major brands have rushed to sign tens of millions of endorsement fees with him. This counterattack speed is beyond the reach of many rich second generations, and Zhu Zhiwen, who was still in the Moonlight Clan not long ago, almost instantly became a self-made nouveau riche. His whole world was shocked by this sudden change in his life, as if he had not yet returned to his senses in a dream. Zhu Zhiwen was full of emotion and looked forward to a prosperous tomorrow as soon as possible. After Zhu Zhiwen obtained a fortune of tens of millions, he could have lived a decent and luxurious life. However, his 14-year-old son Zhu Danwei did not grow up, but was addicted to the virtual world of video games all day long. Zhu Danwei would sleep until he woke up naturally, then turned on the game computer and played the game upside down day and night for more than ten hours. This life of staring at the screen for a long time made his eyes blood-red, and he felt dizzy and sleepy at every turn. Games and junk food have become the biggest "addictions" in his life, and it is difficult to let go of heavy dependence. Zhu Zhiwen was anxious in his eyes, and he persuaded his son many times to make a living and plan for the future, but Zhu Danwei turned a deaf ear and didn't take his father's painstaking words to heart at all. He took it for granted that he had the right to enjoy his father's vast wealth, and that he only had to eat, drink, and be merry all day. This distorted mentality made Zhu Danwei fearless, and he often made unreasonable demands on Zhu Zhiwen to meet various luxury material needs. If his father is not satisfied, he loses his temper and does not care about the feelings of those around him. The only thing Zhu Zhiwen can do is to reluctantly accept the reality and let his son go. He also understood that it was useless to be in charge of teaching, so he could only let his son spend all day at home. Zhu Danwei lives on his father's support in this way, and he is not in a hurry or anxious about his future. Gradually, the life of eating and drinking without worries allowed Zhu Danwei to develop a big-bellied body. His bloated and fat appearance is far from what he used to be, and he has become an overweight version of the "success loser". Zhu Zhiwen saw that his son was in a slump and decided to find a virtuous helper for him, hoping that marriage could help him grow quickly. Deep down, Zhu Zhiwen still has illusions, and he believes that Zhu Danwei will one day be on the right track. Zhu Zhiwen met ** Chen Yanan on a blind date for his son Zhu Danwei, a lively and cheerful little girl. Zhu Zhiwen admired Chen Yanan's optimistic and motivated personality, and hoped that she could influence Zhu Danwei, so he took the initiative to bear a high bride price, so that the two could smoothly enter the marriage hall. At the beginning of the wedding, Zhu Danwei often took Chen Yanan out to travel, and also diligently learned to cook some home-cooked dishes. Zhu Zhiwen was very relieved to see this, thinking that his son was finally going to change his ways. He sincerely thanked God for letting Zhu Danwei meet such a cheerful and calm girl. However, the good times did not last long, and within a few months, Zhu Danwei regained his true face as a game otaku. He still has nothing to do all day, and all the expenses of the family are still supported by Chen Yanan's salary. This kind of unearned life did not make Zhu Danwei feel that it was wrong at all, but he intensified and often made things difficult for his wife without reason. Chen Yanan was anxious to change Zhu Danwei's negative lifestyle, and she encouraged him to learn a skill and helped him set a schedule for going to bed early and waking up early. But Zhu Danwei disagreed with his wife's painstaking persuasion, he believed that he was such a character, and he didn't want to change it. In the end, Chen Yanan, who couldn't bear it, chose to divorce. This divorce caused an uproar in the circle of friends, and Chen Yanan publicly criticized Zhu Danwei for being a "giant baby" who was not earned for nothing, which made the Zhu family infamous for a while. Zhu Zhiwen regretted this sudden change. He never imagined that his hard-earned money not only did not educate his son to lofty ideals, but instead fueled his bad habit of eating soft rice. Now it's too late to discipline my son. After the divorce, Zhu Danwei had no intention of repenting. He was justified in asking Zhu Zhiwen to find a new love for him. Although Zhu Zhiwen was embarrassed, he still had a glimmer of hope for his son, and he was ready to sacrifice himself again to seek new happiness for Zhu Danwei. The second girlfriend is Chen Meng, who has a lively personality. Seeing Zhu Danwei's attitude of looking for a job, Zhu Zhiwen happily thought that his son was finally going to change his ways. So he once again donated generously, so that the two successfully entered the marriage hall. Again, however, this situation lasted less than a year before it failed. Chen Meng gradually realized that Zhu Danwei was still doing his own thing, waiting to be "raised" all day long. She couldn't bear it anymore and revealed on the Internet that the marriage had also come to an end. After two failed marriages, Zhu Danwei dated Chen Meng, who had a lively and cheerful personality. This girl gave Zhu Zhiwen the light of hope, because Zhu Danwei showed the attitude of *** and even started to prepare to find a job. Zhu Zhiwen was ecstatic, he sighed that there is no endless road, and his son is finally going to open the first door of the lost and returning. He took the initiative to have several in-depth conversations with Zhu Danwei and persuaded him to cherish his current girlfriend. Zhu Danwei nodded solemnly with a smile on his face, saying that he had deeply realized his mistake and would definitely firmly grasp this opportunity. He promised that he would work to support his family in the future, so that Chen Meng could live a decent life. Seeing his son learn from the pain so much, Zhu Zhiwen's eyes were red with excitement. When he heard that the two had decided to get married, he readily agreed, and once again generously took on the down payment for the marriage. Zhu Zhiwen sincerely hopes that this cheerful and happy girl can bring positive energy to his son and let him really get on the right track. 
At the beginning of his marriage, Zhu Danwei did seem to have changed a lot. He no longer indulges in games and sleeps all day, but actively accompanies his new wife to go out for walks and exercise. The husband and wife look sweet and sweet, and the relationship is very good. Seeing that his son had these down-to-earth changes, Zhu Zhiwen was relieved and relieved. He began to plan the future carefully, planning to wait for Zhu Danwei's career to be successful and his family to go to the European continent to have a good time. However, just when Zhu Zhiwen was secretly counting the beautiful vision, he suddenly received an angry call from Zhu Danwei. It turned out that Chen Meng complained about the problems of her "giant baby" husband on the Internet, revealing that this marriage was about to come to an end. 
Zhu Zhiwen couldn't believe that this kind of thing would happen again. Once again, he blamed himself for his son's emotional failure and regretted it. At this time, Zhu Danwei has fallen into an unprecedented emotional trough and pain. Seeing his son fall into emotional disputes again and again, Zhu Zhiwen finally realized that his doting and resource supply over the years had harmed Zhu Danwei. He remembered that once upon a time, Zhu Danwei was just a simple child who needed the care and guidance of his parents. At that time, Zhu Danwei was humble and polite, studied hard and worked hard, full of infinite possibilities. However, care and reward also need to be restrained, and parents who go beyond it will be counterproductive. Over the years, in order to compensate for his son's hard life when he was a child, Zhu Zhiwen has given him too much abundance and material demand. 
This directly led Zhu Danwei to develop the bad habit of "waiting to eat and drink" and lose his fighting spirit of self-improvement and self-reliance. Now it is hopeless to change his son's distorted mentality of relying on being "raised". Zhu Danwei faced a series of emotional failures, but did not repent at all, but intensified his efforts to ask his father to solve it again. This is beyond the scope of Zhu Zhiwen's ability to respond. He realizes that caring can hurt a child's future, which is a huge failure and pain for a father. However, it was too late, and Zhu Danwei was now waiting to be "supported" all day long, and it was difficult to find a place to be independent. 
Zhu Zhiwen was sad and blamed himself. The doting and resource satisfaction many years ago made Zhu Danwei develop a negative attitude of getting something for nothing. Now he wants to discipline him, but his son is already weak and helpless. Everything started because of his own spoiling, which made Zhu Zhiwen worried. The only thing he can do is to continue to meet Zhu Danwei's needs as much as possible, and look forward to the day when he can open his mouth and regain his fighting spirit. Zhu Danwei's experience is a profound warning to all parents. If parents indulge their children's various material needs for a long time, not only will they not be able to win their respect, but will cause their children to develop the bad habit of "waiting for food and drink" and lose the motivation for self-improvement and self-reliance. 
Children need to face the right amount of life pressures to sharpen in order to grow. Parents should have the courage to discipline and not let their children go their own way because of a moment of love. Appropriate restraint will make children know how to correct their mistakes and become competent social beings. Zhu Zhiwen doted on his son excessively, which harmed the future of his life. We must not repeat the mistakes of the past, but let children understand the importance of respecting work and independence from an early age. This is the only way for them to mature. In addition, parents should be the guides on the road of their children's growth. We need to put ourselves in our children's shoes and patiently guide them to set up lofty ideals. 
This requires loving and principled care, both caring for the child and insisting on the necessary restraints. It will not be easy for children to grow up. As parents, we should not blindly nourish their material comforts, but cultivate the quality of independent struggle. Appropriate labor tests can hone a responsible person. If you allow children to develop bad habits because they love them, it will be the greatest harm to their growth. The example of Zhu Danwei illustrates this point. The key to caring for parents is rational and firm guidance, rather than blind accommodation. It is our duty to let children understand the value of hard work and the necessity of hard work. Zhu Zhiwen's lesson is worthy of reflection by all parents, so as to prevent us from embarking on this misunderstanding. 
Zhu Zhiwen can only continue to fund his son's life, hoping that time can change him on the right track, and the only thing Zhu Zhiwen can do is to continue to fund Zhu Danwei's life and meet his material needs. He understands that it is too late to discipline, and he can only let his son go, hoping that time can change him, so that Zhu Danwei will wake up one day and regain his life path. Zhu Zhiwen still has hope in his heart, hoping that Zhu Danwei will eventually get lost and become a responsible person. He will continue to persuade his son and give him the confidence and courage to get on the right track. 
The Zhu family is also looking forward to a miracle that will make Zhu Danwei start again. February** Dynamic Incentive Program