If you love someone again, if you can't be a husband and wife, just deal with it like this
Some love is destined to have no result, so it can only be hidden silently in the heart. You love him, and he loves you, but you can't be together, you can't be husband and wife, you can't have a common future. This kind of love makes people heartache, makes people helpless, and makes people want to give up, but they are reluctant.
Letting go is a kind of wisdom and a kind of courage. The song "Decent" sings the hearts of many people. The lyrics say: "The love I give you is written on paper, afraid that it will fade over time." The love you gave me is written in my heart, and I am afraid that it will disappear after a long time. This is a confession of helplessness and a decent breakup. There is a story about a couple of lovers who cannot get married because of the opposition of their family. They fell in love for ten years and eventually separated. When they broke up, they didn't quarrel, they didn't cry, they just said lightly: "Thank you, you once loved me." "They chose to let go, not because they didn't love anymore, but because they loved too deeply, too much, too tired. They let go of each other, with respect and tenderness for themselves and each other, but also with the attitude of adults.
Keeping a distance is a form of respect and a form of reason. Some love, which cannot cross the boundaries of morality and reason, can only be expressed with a lifetime of waiting. The love story of Brahms and Clara is a prime example. Brahms was a famous composer, and Clara was a pianist and the wife of his mentor. They have been in love for forty years, but they have never been united, only communicating with ** and letters. They know that their love is impossible, immoral, and unacceptable to the world. They chose to keep their distance, not because they didn't love anymore, but because they loved too deeply, too purely, too highly. They keep their distance, which is respect and reason for themselves and each other, and also the temperament of an artist.
Being well with each other is a blessing and a blessing. Some loves, without results, can only end with blessings, wishing the other party happiness. There is a sentence on the Internet that says: "If one day, we no longer contact, you have to remember that I have never hated you, nor have I forgotten you, I just feel that this is good for you and me." "It's a selfless blessing and a mature letting go. Zhao Liying and Feng Shaofeng's divorce statement is an example. They used to be an enviable couple, but announced their separation two years later. They didn't accuse each other, they didn't denigrate each other, they simply said, "We're all good with each other, it's just no longer suitable." "They chose to be okay with each other, not because they didn't love each other, but because they loved too deeply, too truly, and too painfully. They are well with each other, which is a blessing and beauty for themselves and each other, and it is also the demeanor of a star.
Love is the most beautiful thing in life, and it is also the saddest thing. There are some loves that we can't have, can't achieve, can't continue, we can only let go, keep our distance, and be okay with each other. In doing so, it's not that I don't love it, but I love it more. We must learn to reconcile with ourselves, separate from the past, and not dwell on fruitless feelings, but cherish the people and things of the present. As one of the poems says, "Don't cry because it's over, smile for what you once had." ”