Have you ever had a crush experience as well? The feeling is both sweet and bitter. In fact, there are many reasons why you don't dare to be brave enough to say love, so let's take this topic together today and unveil your crush.
Have you ever had such an experience? There is a person living in my heart, and every time I see him, my heartbeat will involuntarily accelerate, and it feels as if there are only two of you left in the world. You crave to be with them, but you're afraid of rejection. So, you chose to be silent and hid that emotion deep in your heart.
Crush, this feeling of both sweetness and bitterness, let's take a look at why it's always hard for us to be brave enough to say love.
Fear of rejection.
This is the main reason why many people are afraid to express their love. When we like someone, we will unconsciously imagine many beautiful scenes in our hearts, but the reality is often not satisfactory. The disappointment and embarrassment can be overwhelming if rejected by someone you like.
Inferiority complex is a problem.
Sometimes, we don't think highly of ourselves and don't think we deserve each other. This inferiority complex can make us timid in front of the people we like and afraid to express our true feelings.
Fear of losing friendship.
If you've already established a friendship with someone you like, you may be worried about how your relationship will be affected after you confess. In case the other person rejects you, you may feel that you have lost a cherished friend.
Fear of the unknown.
Sometimes, we have a fear of the unknown. When we fall in love with someone, we may worry about what will happen if we are together? Do the other person's personality and habits match yours? These are our concerns.
Crush is a very subtle feeling, which allows us to experience the sweetness and bitterness of love. But ultimately, we need to be brave enough to face our hearts and not let these fears stop us from pursuing true love. When you meet someone who is really right, you might as well be brave enough to say "I love you", even if the result is not satisfactory, at least we have been brave enough to pursue it.
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