February** Dynamic Incentive Program
Hello, I'm Sugar.
Xin Yiwu wrote in "To Our Dying Youth":
We may meet many people in our lives, and sometimes we happen to be on the same path, and we will walk together for a while, until we meet the person we really want to spend our lives with, and then we will give the rest of the journey to this person and go to the end together. ”
It is true that everyone wants to find the destined lover, and they all want to have a love for the purpose of marriage.
But not all two people in love are Prince Charming and Cinderella, and they are not destined to have a happy ending at the beginning.
There is a kind of man, even if he loves vigorously, please let go immediately, because the ending is already predictable.
01 There is machismo, but no masculinity.
28-year-old Ali visited her sister-in-law's house and was envious when she saw a dazzling array of cosmetics on her sister-in-law's dressing table in the bedroom.
Although Ali is only 28 years old, she looks "old" than her sister-in-law.
Ali didn't understand why her sister-in-law could wear gold and silver and dress up beautifully, while she was like a withered flower.
In fact, Ali's "old age" is for a reason.
Ali's husband has a very obvious machismo, at home, cooking and cleaning and other housework are all done by Ali alone, and her husband is an "uncle".
There is machismo, but there is no machismo. Ali's husband not only doesn't do housework, but he also manages the family's finances, but he doesn't even want to buy a bag and a set of skin care products and cosmetics for Ali.
If you want the horse to run and don't give the horse grazing, even the best horse will be tired one day. Not to mention a woman?
A woman is like a flower, to love a woman is to raise flowers, how attentive you are, how beautiful the flowers will be, and if you pay a few points of love, the flowers will bloom to a few points.
If you don't even want to water it, why blame the flowers for not being beautiful?
02 Emotionally unstable and will not restrain his anger.
I once watched a short **. There were two couples who met to go to the movies together, and the four of them were in the same car, and it was the woman in the first couple who drove the car.
Seeing that the movie was about to start, the woman was a little anxious, and the accelerator under her feet couldn't help but accelerate, and she accidentally missed the intersection where she should have turned left.
The man suddenly yelled at the woman: "What's the matter, why are you wrong again, the movie can't catch up with the opening!" ”
And the second couple sitting in the back seat, the man looked out of the car window very calmly, and then said to the woman gently: "Wife, do you look good at the snow outside?" Anyway, I can't catch up with the movie, or if you get out of the car, I'll take a few photos of you**, it will definitely be out of the circle. ”
Later, the two couples went to the café to drink coffee again, but the waiter accidentally spilled the coffee on the woman in the second couple, and before the parties were angry, the woman in the first couple yelled at the waiter and asked for a waiver.
But the woman in the second couple kept saying to the waiter, "It's okay" and "Just wash it".
Emotional stability is never a one-person thing, the so-called emotional stability is actually two people who respect and tolerate each other.
For the rest of your life, you must spend it with someone who is emotionally stable, because the meaning of meeting is to illuminate each other.
03 Conclusion.
There is a poem in the Book of Birds:
There are three thousand floating worlds, and there are three of my loves. The sun, the moon, and the sun. The sun is the morning, the moon is the twilight, and the Qing is the twilight of the morning and the twilight. ”
Each of us will have our own love story, but not every one of them is worth cherishing.
Love is like a big gamble, betting on a happy life, betting on the wrong one and ruining a life.
Only when we meet the real right person can we go through our lives towards the curtain.
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