I like him so much, a clear stream of emotion. Combined with the Adlerian psychology I've been looking at recently, it's important to draw on it:
Don't live by other people's reactions. It's someone else's problem to be bad or scum, but what you do depends on yourself, is it to let other people's reactions affect your normal life?
Aren't those who are controlled by others just love brains?,Wow he said a sweet word today, I'm so happy to sleep, he doesn't contact me this weekend, I'm not in any mood. According to my non-serious observations, those who like to post ** in the circle of friends are love brains, including myself. There is also the commonality of appearance, with a bit of innocent and innocent silly girls, Ma Sichun, Zhou Xun, Zhang Liangying, Gillian. (A little observation of life, welcome**).
As for other emotional accounts, it is not advisable for women to objectify themselves and satisfy each other, it is you who have your own framework, not a framework that you make after working with the other person for others to follow or put yourself into someone else's framework. That is, two people do not need either person to sacrifice themselves involuntarily. So why do you say that the routines are too difficult, because you can't do it yourself, you're not such a person, you still want to learn the routines to trick others, forget it, if you still have a little bit of right and wrong people, you can't wash your brain, you can't wash your brain to conform to the rules of the patriarchal society, you can't do well. In the same way, I can't do it, it's not that I don't think it's morally wrong, but I can't agree, if one of my friends makes a living by cheating, as long as he doesn't lie to me, I won't interfere and oppose it, but it's impossible to agree. Only what you deeply agree with, you will naturally do well.
People's happiness is the sense of contribution, not the recognition given to you by others, but the fact that you feel that you are useful, and your existence is value. Mom lost her labor, but she didn't have to do anything, and her presence was what she valued to me. If you base your sense of contribution on the recognition of others, you lose the freedom to live your life according to the wishes of others. But human beings pursue happiness while choosing freedom.
Be yourself, love yourself, freedom is the premise of happiness.