At the end of the year, civil servants often rarely attend class reunions, not because they are big,

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-02-01

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At the end of the year, class reunions have become more numerous. Everyone is ready to go home for the New Year, and they can see friends who have not seen each other for many years when they were children, get together, and be lively and lively, recalling the beautiful life when they were children.

After all, it's a class reunion, not a unit meeting, and it will always be uneven. But some people find that the people who are not in line are different every time, but there are always people who don't come every time, and the largest proportion of them are admitted to the civil service.

Why is it that after being admitted to the civil service, I am reluctant to participate in class reunions? The shelves are big, and no one can please move? In fact, it's not that I'm unwilling, but I'm afraid.

As a public servant of the State, there are always more or less rights。Class reunions are not all simple reminiscences, nostalgia for the past, and some people always have a purpose.

However, civil servants also have their own work rules and ethics, and the things that can be asked for are often not in accordance with the rules。After all, if you are compliant, you can do it directly, and you don't need to ask for it.

Then this class reunion is not a class reunion, but looking for trouble, and it may even be entangled and unable to drag it out。In addition to worrying about being asked to do things, there are several other points that they are also worried about.

Civil servants are more sensitive identities, and even after leaving work, they are being supervised。At the dinner table, drinking too much and losing your temper will also have a bad impact once it is publicized.

Some units also prohibit civil servants from drinking alcohol, even after hours. And when the students get together, what they say, what they talk about, what they say and do, once they are maliciously used by someone with a heart, they will be in trouble, and they will even lose their jobs.

Some students may feel that such worries are due to the fact that the relationship between each other is not very good. As long as you trust enough, you don't have to worry about this kind of problem, and everyone is open and honest, isn't it great?

But in fact, it is not, even if no one asks for something, civil servants have their own embarrassment. For example, during this time, some people have already returned to their hometowns for the New Year, and everyone has time to get together for a get-together.

But as a civil servant, I haven't had a holiday yet, and I don't have time to party. So it's not that I don't really want to, it's that I'm not available. In addition, it can be embarrassing when asked about the salary.

If you say less, people think you're cheating, and if you say too much, people think you're **, in short, it's not good。This identity is a very sensitive identity, so it is still necessary to maintain a sense of mystery.

These worries are not alarmist, and even sometimes, what really happens is even more than that。Being sober and vigilant at all times is also a way for civil servants to protect themselves.

Civil servants have a special status, and they should always pay attention to their own influence on the unit. After all, it represents the public, so even if it is off-duty time, there can be no out-of-line behavior.

If you have friends who are civil servants, you should be clear. They don't even have the freedom to post on Moments, and everyone will carefully control their emotions.

What you can see in the circle of friends is some positive things, occasionally there are some small and beautiful records of life, and the others are rarely seen.

This is a conventional, no one prescribes it, but everyone does it by default。It's also a way to protect themselves, so it's not that they don't want to go to class reunions, but they're really living carefully.

The friendship between classmates is very valuable。But the kind of class reunion that focuses on seeking people and showing off is actually a kind of consumption. Find three or five friends, more familiar, everyone gets together together, it will be a little easier.

I also hope that all students, cherish that innocent friendship. Don't let the friendship change because of the change of identity after growing up.

It doesn't matter if it's a big boss, a small trader, a part-time worker, or an unemployed person at home, can put aside the shackles of identity, in order to have a more sincere gathering.

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