Marriage, it is like a gorgeous cheongsam, the bright appearance is eye-catching, but it may also hide unknown flaws. For Song Siming, his marriage to Jiang Miaomiao is like this. On the outside, it looks glamorous, but on the inside it is full of problems and contradictions.
Song Siming, a child from a rural background, is not wealthy. But like many people who aspire to change their fate, he dreams of jumping out of poverty through his own efforts. College became the only way for him to realize his dreams. And his younger brother, in order to reduce the burden on the family, resolutely decided to give up his studies and let Song Siming pursue his dream.
Song Siming did not disappoint his family's expectations, he successfully completed his university studies and found a stable job in the agency. At this time, he met Jiang Miaomiao. She comes from a ** family with a strong family background. Although Jiang Miaomiao was not the ideal candidate in Song Siming's heart, considering that she could bring him more development opportunities, he still chose to marry her.
After marriage, Jiang Miaomiao became the supporter behind Song Siming, taking care of all the trivial things for him and letting him concentrate on his career. She accompanied him through the most difficult period of her life, and even when Song Siming became famous, she did not covet pleasure, but tried her best to maintain the family's clean image.
Once, Jiang Miaomiao took a fancy to a set of tables and chairs worth 30,000 yuan, she liked it very much and wanted to buy it and put it in the restaurant. But considering the space and cost at home, as well as Song Siming's identity, she finally resisted the urge to buy. It wasn't until one day that she saw the set of tables and chairs at Guo Haizao's house, and she realized that Song Siming used their joint savings to support other women.
In marriage, Jiang Miaomiao has always considered Song Siming and planned carefully for his future and family. However, her dedication and sacrifice were exchanged for her husband's betrayal. Behind this seemingly glamorous marriage, there are many unknown pains and helplessness. In the luxury of the mansion and the dazzle of the luxury car, Guo Haizao lives a staggering life. At that moment, Jiang Miaomiao felt indifferent in her heart, she understood that the so-called despair was nothing more than that. And Song Siming, a middle-aged elite, has been at ease in the whirlpool of power and fame. But for him, the hustle and bustle of this life is just a passing thing, and deep down in his heart, he is full of longing for a simple and free life.
Meeting Guo Haizao, Song Siming's heart set off ripples. This innocent girl is as innocent as a blank paper, in addition to having a similar charm to his first love between her eyebrows and eyes, but also has the fragrance of youth and fresh vitality that his wife has lost. What fascinates him the most is Guo Haizao's simple desire, her heart is clear and discerning, and there is no need to guess and speculate. Song Siming indulged in this simple and clear relationship, and did not hesitate to encroach on Guo Haizao's body and mind, and the two began an unscrupulous cohabitation life.
For Guo Haizao, Song Siming is like a door to a new world. He gave her another possibility in life, a life that does not need to fight and struggle, but only to be enjoyed. She has just entered the society, naively thinking that relying on this man, she can live her life in peace. Song Siming gave her money and materials, and she followed him contentedly. She also endured his request silently, without the slightest complaint. For Song Siming, the marriage with Jiang Miaomiao is like chewing wax, and the food is tasteless. And staying with Guo Haizao is like tasting a fresh delicacy. Her various emotions are obsessed with him, and the days with her seem to take him back to his youth.
Unexpectedly, the seemingly innocent Guo Haizao is not a good type, she ignored Jiang Miaomiao's kind advice, and instead ridiculed: "I never pin my future on anyone, I have my lover, and I am about to enter marriage." How do you know if I'm sincere? Whether your husband loves you or not, you should know best. Please don't take your anger out on me just because you can't get it. ”
As the saying goes, you can't wake up the person who pretends to be asleep. Those who are determined to follow a path have no one to persuade unless they wake up themselves. Guo Haizao has clearly decided to go one way to the end. Song Siming knew that Jiang Miaomiao had found Guo Haizao, and he was displeased, forgetting his twenty-year relationship as husband and wife, and warned her for a woman who had known her for a short time: "I remind you that it is best not to do things without my permission, so as not to be difficult to clean up." ”
It takes a long time to accumulate affection, but giving up is a matter of moments. Jiang Miaomiao turned her back and was silent, only feeling cold to the bone. She accompanied Song Siming from poverty to wealth, cut down on food and clothing for him, took care of household chores, and took care of children. For the sake of her family, she lowered her value, but she did not get his sincere treatment. And Song Siming thinks too highly of herself in her relationship, takes her forbearance for granted, and arrogantly thinks that not divorce is a great kindness, she is in her prime, and only he is her destination.
The reason why Song Siming hurt her unscrupulously is that he has never loved her. Because I don't love, I have no scruples. And this woman he doesn't know how to cherish, but she is willing to share the risk with him at a critical moment. Jiang Miaomiao resolutely sold the house of her parents and younger brother and supported him with all her heart. In Song Siming's world, Guo Haizao became the object of his currying favor and appeasement. With all his heart, he donated the mansion that originally belonged to Jiang Miaomiao to Guo Haizao, so that she could live a carefree life there. And Jiang Miaomiao, the former original partner, is now forced to take care of this woman who destroyed her family, and even has to take care of the child in her belly. What kind of world is this?
Guo Haizao, she occupies the happiness that does not belong to her, and enjoys the glory and wealth. And her original husband was indifferent, and entrusted Jiang Miaomiao to take care of this woman and the child. This kind of bottomless and unprincipled concession is cruel to oneself. Jiang Miaomiao's heartbreak makes me feel even more sad for all the women who have been wronged in their marriages.
An obsessed woman who has illusions about a broken marriage, her husband is living with other women, but she still feels sorry for herself, and takes 5 million to save a man who doesn't love her. It's time for such a woman to wake up! Instead of guarding an absent-minded man to live, it is better to bravely get out of this quagmire.
I remember someone once told me: "The person you go to meet will not remember you, he will only remember the person you have traveled to meet." "What a painful realization! If a woman only knows one-way giving in marriage, the man may be moved at first, but after a long time, it will only become numb. True marriage is a two-way street, and it takes two people to work together to build a strong wall.
In marriage, we need to learn to love ourselves. Only when we love ourselves and stick to our bottom line and principles can we take the initiative in marriage. It is not our destiny to be hurt, it is our choice to refuse to be hurt.