Perhaps you can understand Liang Jing's current situation and understand the decision Ma Yili made 19 years ago.
Recently, Liang Jing returned to the public eye with her new work "Fireworks People", and she won the love of the audience with her excellent acting skills and character charm.
Although this incident has attracted the attention of the audience, the most unexpected thing is that she publicly celebrated her 19-year married life with her husband Guan Hu on social platforms.
In the midst of a wave of blessings, the appearance of a comment instantly attracted the attention of netizens, making them curious to know what happened.
Ding Yutong has frequently ** his love life on major social platforms since last year, claiming that he has had a relationship with Guan Hu, and said that Guan Hu has decided to divorce and be with her.
But Liang Jing's methods are amazing, but they also make me suffer deeply.
Although the truth of the matter is not yet known, it is clear that this seems to be just Ding Yutong's personal performance, because no matter how excited she is on social platforms, Guan Hu and Liang Jing have never directly responded to this matter.
Ding Yutong's perseverance, although it did not leave traces on the hot search, this also fully demonstrated Liang Jing's shrewdness.
Clearly, she has precise control over everything.
Who can dominate this stage more, between Ma Yili and these two ladies, who is better?
The management guide has made Liang Jing and Ma Yili now go to a different situation.
Although Guan Hu grew up in the Beijing circle, and his family planned a life path for him, unfortunately, his appearance was not outstanding, which made the career of an actor very difficult for him.
He decided to turn into a director, and even though his father had a lot of resources, he didn't want to rely on his father, so he chose to borrow money to make a film instead of asking for his father's help.
His determination allowed him to be independent rather than dependent on the help of others.
Due to the failure of his first work, "Hair is Messy", he decided to start over. He decided to do his best to create a better work.
In order to find the most suitable actor, he even went to the school to select it himself, but he didn't expect to not only find the best candidate here, but also unexpectedly gained a beautiful love.
This person is Ma Yili.
Ma Yili was full of admiration for the profession of director when she was in college, and after being selected by the director, the two frequently played against each other in the crew, and gradually developed a relationship.
When Commander Ma said that no one would accompany her for Valentine's Day, the director did not hesitate to fly from Shanghai to Beijing to accompany her.
After Commander Ma won the first prize in his life, the director generously gave him a diamond ring.
In the past, both material and spiritual aspects were given to Commander Ma meticulously, and it can be said that the supervisor at that time was wholeheartedly devoted to Commander Ma.
Not only that, but in the crew, he also coached his girlfriend's acting skills one-on-one, and later praised her as a high-profile new star in the circle.
Although the filming of "Black Hole" brought a strong bond between the two of them, the relationship cracked after the film ended. The one who caused this rift was Commander Ma's best friend Liang Jing.
During the filming, Commander Ma and Liang Jing's friendship grew deeper, but at the same time, the conflict between her and her boyfriend also intensified.
Although Ma is originally from Shanghai and has independent decision-making skills and a strong personality, she is not pursuing the status of a strong woman in her career, but a good wife and mother who can play the role of a good wife and a good mother in the hall and kitchen at the same time.
Liang Jing, as a friend of both parties, has been trying her best to mediate the conflict between the two, but as time goes by, the conflict becomes deeper and deeper. In the end, Commander Ma and Guan Dao still chose to separate.
In a program many years later, the director and Liang Jing shared the details of their relationship, saying that they fell in love in the play "Black Hole", and then fell in love for four years, and finally entered the palace of marriage.
Although some people think that Liang Jing is involved in the relationship between Ma and Guan, by observing her relationship with her husband, we can see that she is actually the best partner for Guan Jing.
For the supervisor, Liang Jing is his best choice. He wanted to find a partner who was both gentle and virtuous and caring for the family, while Ms Leung firmly believed that men should not be solely responsible for household chores.
Knowing the importance of family, Ms. Leung chose to stay at home and take care of her husband and children.
She silently supported her husband's career behind her back and became his solid backing.
With her help, her husband was able to devote himself to his work and become a great director.
Ms. Liang's careful care of her husband makes everyone around her look at her. Jiang Wenli once mentioned on the show that when she had dinner with the couple, Ms. Liang didn't speak almost the whole time, just sat silently to take care of her husband, peeled the crab and put it in front of him.
If it were replaced by Ma Yili, would she do it? This shows that Ms. Liang is the ideal partner of the supervisor, but it is also the reason why Ma Yili left him.
Commander Ma could not settle for her husband and children at home, so after a disagreement, she firmly made the decision to leave. "
Although she has been with the article for many years, it has not been as happy as everyone expected, however, in her mind, her life is not a failure.
Her acting career is the best in the circle. Although there are many controversies about her, it is undeniable her acting skills and attitude towards life. As long as she is in the play, the whole drama will definitely be able to land steadily.
The hit of "Flowers" made her popularity soar, not only got the opportunity to cooperate with first-line famous directors, but also left unforgettable classic pictures in the play.
Ma Yili's achievements are unique and unmatched.
Now she no longer cares about fame and fortune, the scripts are piled up, she only chooses the most suitable for herself, and is no longer influenced and restricted by others.
For actors, it probably doesn't get much more successful than that.
Compared with Liang Jing's current situation, Commander Ma does have obvious advantages.
Ms. Liang's talent has been overshadowed by Guan Hu for many years, and the years of husband and child education have made her miss the ** period of an actress. In recent years, she has gradually stepped into the front of the camera and once again showcased her talent.
She has wisdom and understands the gap between her strength and traffic actors.
As a result, she turned around as a producer and made cameo appearances in her husband's films, which not only tied her career, but also showcased her unique talent.
Although the status of producers is higher than that of actors, there is also a problem because of this, that is, they often become the people behind their husbands and lack a career of their own.
She seems to have realized this problem, so in recent years she has begun to gradually "become independent" and become a real actress again.
Ms. Leung used to appear in movies and TV series only a handful of times, a phenomenon that changed with the recent hit "Pyrotechnics".
Although she only made a cameo in the movie, she played more roles in the TV series, which is a big change.
Commander Ma's decisive character was fully demonstrated in this incident, and after discovering the disagreement with Guan Hu, he chose to withdraw without hesitation and insisted on following his own path, which undoubtedly improved his ** degree.
In the shrewdness and wisdom, insight into the world, well versed in the truth of "the road is one foot high, the magic is one foot high".
It's never too late to be her true self at any time, just like Liang Jing, she has returned to the path of being an actress, not only bringing new works to the audience, but also taking her career one step forward.
Ma Yili's experience once again proves the saying: in life, we must rely on ourselves. After all, her own experience proves this truth.