Title Family Warmth Moment Urgently sent the third uncle to the city hospital, he was seriously ill and tempting to tears
Seeing the tired appearance of the third uncle, I felt extremely entangled and heartache in my heart, but I quickly calmed down, and I said to my aunt: "What kind of hatred does the family have?" ”
The aunt also echoed guiltily and said: "The family can't be annoyed. ”
After the neighbors knew the situation, they said with deep sympathy: "Noisy is noisy, noisy is noisy, and the family is reliable when there is something." ”
The conflict between our family and the third uncle's family has existed for several years, and it is hard to believe that it is due to the financial problems after the death of my grandmother.
Three years ago, my grandmother, who was over 90 years old, passed away.
After my grandmother passed away, we set a date for the funeral, which was set for three days later.
My father was the eldest in the family, an honest farmer.
The second uncle is a retired teacher, and he hardly asks about the big and small things in the family, and only takes money.
The third uncle, like his father, is an ordinary farmer, simple and amiable, and ordinary.
If their brothers are alone, no matter how big the matter is, it will not cause a storm.
Her mother and second aunt were also hardworking and kind peasant women.
But the third aunt is not so good.
She has a shortcoming, that is, she likes to take advantage of small advantages.
She thinks she is the youngest in the family, and there are things that always let the two of us let her.
Everyone also understands in their hearts that after all, it is between relatives, and there will always be some friction between relatives.
Our family's land is next to her family's house, and when she harvests the crops every year, she either cultivates a part of our family's land or collects a little more from her second uncle's crops, which she takes for granted.
Usually, when something happens at home, when she is a group member, she always puts forward opinions, and she has to give two less.
Most of the time, it is the second uncle's family that fills her shortfall.
My mother and second aunt are sometimes resentful.
But in front of their father and second uncle, they didn't have such a mood.
In order to avoid making outsiders laugh, the conflict is just an internal quarrel within the family.
It is precisely for this reason that the affairs of our family, including the third uncle's family affairs, are all done at our own expense, and we are unwilling to listen to the third aunt and ignore her.
The day after my grandmother's death, our family discussed arranging her funeral.
The three brothers said that their grandmother lived to be over 90 years old, and her life was not easy, she did not suffer any crime, and her death was a blessing.
According to our rural tradition, when an elderly person in his nineties dies, a wedding funeral should be held.
They all think that it should be done grandly, and it doesn't matter if it costs a little money, so that it looks decent.
Once agreed, someone needs to come forward to organize.
The third uncle and three aunts took the initiative to ask Ying, saying that they would handle it.
Everyone was very happy when they heard it.
The third aunt's maiden family is an expert in this area.
The three families prepared a certain amount of money and handed it over to the third uncle and three aunts.
To tell the truth, the grandmother's funeral was arranged by the maiden family of the third uncle and three aunts in an orderly manner, simple and grand, and was praised by relatives, friends and people in the village.
Our family also expressed our gratitude to the third uncle and three aunts.
However, the settling incident that occurred three days after the funeral, the actions of the third uncle and three aunts made our two families angry.
There are certain rules for funerals in rural areas, and after the funeral is done, everyone must settle the accounts together, count how many tables have been held, how much gift money is earned, how much is paid, how much money is left, and how much money is owed, and it must be clear and clear.
The person who interacts with should repay the gift and pay back the money in the future, which is just and fair.
However, their approach is difficult for us to accept.
The accounts were not clearly calculated, and the gift money was not distributed, but the third uncle and three aunts told us that the two families had lost a total of 10,000 yuan, and asked each of us to come up with 3,500 yuan.
After discussing with the second uncle and aunt, the parents decided that it would be like this, there was no way for them to take advantage of it, and they should not expect to have the opportunity to recover the money in the future.
They had no objection, but my wife was very angry.
She said privately that the 5,000 yuan she spent should not be used to settle the account, and now that the gift money is expensive and the food price is cheap, it is impossible to lose so much money.
I don't know how the third aunt knew that his wife thought so, so she came to our house and accused her of being noisy, and the wife was so angry that she couldn't speak, but the third aunt became more and more angry.
I dragged my wife into the house and persuaded her not to quarrel with her sister-in-law, as it would make her look very unqualified, and she would hide in the house and not come out.
I persuaded the third aunt to hurry home, don't be angry, I will compensate.
However, my persuasion did not help, and she directed her anger at me.
She pointed at me angrily and said, "It's all your doing, otherwise this wouldn't have happened." ”
I was confused, "Why am I involved again?" The third aunt said menacingly: "You are planning behind your back, otherwise how could this little girl have so much scheming." ”
I was really angry and said to her, "Believe it or not, you're thinking too much anyway." ”
Under the persuasion of everyone, the third aunt's anger subsided and left our house.
I dropped her off at the door, and she pointed at me and said, "You're not done yet?" "What puzzles me is that during the whole incident, the third uncle was present, but he didn't say a word to the third aunt, nor did he pull her.
Just like the third aunt said, she started scolding when she saw me later, which made me very embarrassed.
I complained to my parents and aunts, and they all advised me: "She didn't scold you anymore, bear with me, no one will say that you are afraid of her, we are a family, we have to be adults, don't worry about her." ”
I listened to the old man's words, and every time I met with the third aunt in the future, I would not reply when she scolded me, or try my best to avoid her.
What makes me most angry is that every time the third uncle is silent.
So, I made up my mind to completely cut off relations with my third uncle's family, and I wouldn't care what happened to them in the future.
One morning half a month ago, the third uncle was chatting with someone at the door, and suddenly he fell down one by one, and everyone was frightened and didn't know what was going on.
Coincidentally, I was driving to the city to run errands.
When I passed by the third uncle's house, someone stopped me and told me that the third uncle was sick and fell to the ground.
I didn't think much about it, and instinctively asked someone to help the third uncle get into the car, and the third aunt also got into my car.
The car came to the municipal hospital, we hung up the emergency number, after the instrument examination, the doctor told us, fortunately you sent the patient in time, there is no major problem, if it is a few hours late, even if it is cured, it will leave sequelae.
The next day, after arranging my uncle's hospitalization, I asked my third aunt to go home, settle everything at home, and take care of my younger brother and sister who were in school.
A few days later, my father and my second uncle went to the hospital to visit my third uncle.
After I accompanied my third uncle to take care of him in the hospital for nine days, we were discharged and returned home.
I helped the third uncle get out of the car, and the third aunt also greeted me from home.
Faced with such a scene, the neighbors began to roll their eyes at the third uncle and third aunt.
They all said: "You can speak, you have been noisy with your nephew before, and now you have no choice but to do so, you can't even get along with your relatives, even to strangers is hypocritical." ”
The third aunt replied happily: "This is an internal family matter, and only brothers can go into battle, and fathers and sons can be strong, and others can't do it." ”