"Big River" is a brilliant star in today's literary world, and it is a shining new star. "Dream of Red Mansions" is not only a moving film, but also a reflection of various social phenomena in China's special period. The love history of Song Yunhui and Liang Sishen is like a special landscape, which brings us to a new era and a change in the concept of marriage and love.
* It begins with the encounter between a young primary school tutor, Song Yunhui, and a fourth-grade girl, Liang Sishen. She said the words "surpass him" in her milky voice but with a resolute look in her eyes. This scene seems to be doomed to the fate of the two in the future. Fifteen years later, as Liang Sishen became a self-reliant woman, Song Yunhui had her figure again in her life, but this time, she faced it as a competitor.
On the West Lake, Liang Sishen finally mustered up the courage and told Song Yunhui his feelings. She smiled like a flower, her beautiful eyes were full of anticipation, and she gently spat out a sultry word: "Kiss me." ”
Song Yunhui, a man who has always been known for his calmness and introvertedness, also abandoned all scruples at this time and gave her a loving embrace. This hug is like crossing time and space, connecting each other's hearts together.
However, the relationship was not all smooth sailing. Liang Sishen's decision, when it was still very important at the time, was indeed very challenging. She declined the solemn wedding ceremony and did not want to be in the limelight. What she wanted was a simple, beginning-only the two of them could have. From the perspective of the times, such a choice is both avant-garde and courageous. This is not only a shock to the traditional view of marriage, but also a defense of individual freedom and truth.
Song Yunhui expressed his understanding and respect for Liang Sishen's decision. There is no lavish dowry, no solemn wedding ceremony. He will be more precious than Liang Sishen: respect, understanding, peace, etc. In this relationship, there is no difference between high and low, some just support each other and develop together. To a certain extent, this concept of marriage is a subversion and innovation of the original form of marriage.
"Big River" is not only about the emotional entanglement between men and women, but a condensation of history. This reflects the new ideas and new pursuits of the people in love and marriage during the first period. In this **, we can see the collision and blending of tradition and modernity, and the contradiction and reconciliation between the individual and society. And in the end, it is the power of love that overcomes all obstacles and brings two people who love deeply together.
The views of the general public on this issue are also diverse and complex. Some appreciate their courage and sincerity, while others question their choices and goals. However, in any case, the experience of Song Yunhui and Liang Sishen brings us a perspective to think about: in the process of pursuing love, should we pay more attention to our own emotions and needs? Should we be brave enough to challenge the shackles of tradition? There may not be a clear answer, but this story in "Big River" gives us a good answer.
From this **, we can see the true meaning of love, it does not lie in the abundance of material, nor in the external flashiness, but in a heart-to-heart heart, heart-to-heart heart. The love between Song Yunhui and Liang Sishen shows us a kind of true love that transcends time and space, which can come silently, come silently, go quickly, and go quickly. And the strength and beauty of this love are the precious assets that we should pursue and cherish in today's world.