If you see a teenager on the street with dyed yellow hair and tattoos all over his face, do you think he is a good boy?
In 2020, on the street of Leshan, Sichuan, a middle-aged couple punched and kicked a teenager while forcibly dragging a motorcycle to the side, and the teenager screamed in pain, desperately struggling, unwilling to go with them.
At first, the onlookers thought it was a child, but later learned that the middle-aged couple was the child's parentsThe boy's name is Xia Chaoyong, and in most people's subjective impressions, like him, he tosses himself ** without being a ghost or a ghost, he is definitely not a good child, and even thinks that such a child should be beaten.
But is that really the case? What happened to the teenager who had tattoos all over his face?
Running away from home
In 2017, on a snack street in downtown Leshan, there was a skinny little boy who looked at the steaming pancakes on the snack stall and swallowed his saliva unconsciouslyXia Chaoyong, who was only 11 years old at this time, had not eaten for three or four days.
Perhaps feeling Xia Chaoyong's sight, the owner of the pancake stall looked up, he should have seen that Xia Chaoyong hadn't eaten for a few days, so he picked up the pancakes on the table on the side and were not wanted by the previous guest, and handed them to Xia Chaoyong.
Xia Chaoyong, who was already hungry at this time, thanked the boss and devoured the pancakes. Although the pancakes have been left for a long time, they have been cooled and are still difficult to bite, but Xia Chaoyong feels that this is already the best he has eaten in recent years.
Xia Chaoyong quarreled with his father in a month, ran away from home, and has been in the city for more than a month, and the money on his body has already been spent.
At the beginning, Xia Chaoyong learned to beg on the side of the road, and now most people's awareness of prevention has improved a lot, and occasionally well-wishers will give him three or five yuan, but this situation is very rareThe money Xia Chaoyong begged for was not enough to buy the cheapest white steamed buns.
Later, Xia Chaoyong came to this snack street again, and went to rummage in the trash can to find food that others couldn't eat, but suddenly there were a lot of beggars in the snack street, Xia Chaoyong was young, he couldn't rob others, and he had been hungry for almost three days without eating.
The boss was very sympathetic to Xia Chaoyong's plight, so he asked Xia Chaoyong to stay and help him take care of the pancake stallAlthough he didn't have much money, it would definitely not let him go hungry, this was the first time Xia Chaoyong felt the warmth from others in the past two years.
However, it didn't take long for the police to discover that the pancake stall was employing child labor, and when the police learned that Xia Chaoyong had run away from home, they took him to a police car and sent him to his hometown without saying a word. When Xia Chaoyong's father saw him for the first time, he directly slapped Xia Chaoyong in the face and scolded.
Why did the relationship between their father and son reach such a bad state?
Miserable background
In 2006, Xia Chaoyong was born in Leshan, Sichuan, since he can remember, his mother's health is not very good, almost always lying in bed with a sick appearance, and his father has never had a black face, Xia Chaoyong is reluctant to communicate with him.
His only listener was his mother, but his mother suddenly fell seriously ill and died, and the gears of Xia Chaoyong's fate began to turn in an uncontrollable direction.
One day, his father suddenly brought home a woman and told Xia Chaoyong that this was his motherAt this time, it was only a month before his mother's death, and Xia Chaoyong had not yet gotten rid of his sad mood.
He didn't open his mouth to call his mother, but he was beaten by his father.
As the saying goes, "If you have a stepmother, you will have a stepfather", it is very suitable to describe Xia Chaoyong's father.
Xia Chaoyong's stepmother didn't like him and often quarreled with him over a trivial matterAs long as Xia Chaoyong explained a little to himself, his father would think that he was talking back and beat and scolded him indiscriminately.
The stepmother always shushes him in front of people, but when the two of them get along alone. The stepmother changed her face and didn't even let him eat.
Xia Chaoyong spent almost his entire childhood in gloom, and the only light in his life came from his grandmother.
Whenever Xia Chaoyong can't eat enough from his stepmother, grandma will always leave his own share to Xia Chaoyong, and when his father fights against Xie Chaoyong, grandma will also protect Xie Chaoyong's front, in this family, grandma has become Xia Chaoyong's only support.However, his grandmother's age was getting old, and Xia Chao couldn't bear to see his grandmother worried about him, so he decided to leave the houseIn his opinion, no matter how hard life is outside, it can't be as hard as at home. Xia Chaoyong took his grandmother's usual frugality and used the pocket money left for him to buy a ticket to downtown Leshan.
Escape from home
When the police sent Xia Chaoyong to his hometown in Leshan, his father locked him up at home, and his stepmother didn't like him, let alone care about his life or deathXia Chaoyong, who was starved and had no choice, escaped from home for the second time.
Before leaving home, Xia Chaoyong secretly took 200 yuan, and he used the money to buy a ticket to Chengdu.
As he walked aimlessly down the street, a tattoo parlor suddenly caught Xia Chaoyong's attention, and Xia Chaoyong saw that the owner of the shop had a very cool tattoo, and he liked these patterns very much.
Maybe he saw Xia Chaoyong's interest in tattoos, and the boss told him that the store was now recruiting apprentices, and he was in charge of food and housing, but there was a requirement, neededasked Xia Chaoyong to be a model in the store, no matter where the boss tattooed on his body, Xia Chaoyong couldn't refuse.
Xie Chaoyong was very moved, he was only 12 years old, and he had no ability to distinguish between right and wrongI only felt that I had met a kind-hearted person, who could not only feed him but also give him a place to stay, which was something that the penniless Xie Chao could not ask for.
But now Xia Chaoyong couldn't imagine that his decision would change the trajectory of his life.
I thought it was an excuse for store publicity, oldThe board was full of tattoos on Xia Chaoyong's arms, and then he began to tattoo his thighs and abdomen, and finally even his face was not clean, and Xia Chaoyong's whole person almost became black.
The owner of the tattoo parlor saw that Xia Chaoyong had no place to start with it, so he found an excuse to dismiss himXia Chaoyong, who suddenly lost his place, threw himself into finding a job again.
On this day, Xia Chaoyong inadvertently entered a live broadcast room, and the anchor was using the birthmark on his face to show the effect of concealer, and Xia Chaoyong suddenly had an ideaWhy can't you take advantage of the tattoos on your face?
Just do it, at first, Xia Chaoyong bought a concealer out of his own pocket, recorded the concealer ** and put it on the Internet, which was liked by many people, and the merchant also found Xia Chaoyong to help them bring goods live.
The tattoos used by Xia Chao are already attractive, and the effect of concealer is good, and they are selling well on the InternetXia Chaoyong also got a commission of 200,000 yuan as a result
When he feels that life is slowly getting betterThe official banned his live broadcast room on the grounds that the tattoos on his body would mislead minors.
Meet the nobles
Xia Chaoyong, who lost his job again, decided to return to his hometown with 200,000 yuan, and he felt that his father would no longer look down on him.
However, what Xia Zhaoyong didn't expect was that when he appeared in front of his father, his father only felt that the tattoos on his body were embarrassingTo take him back and lock him up, this is the opening scene.
After going back, his father proposed to sever the father-son relationship with Xia Chaoyong and let him never return to this home.
Xie Chaoyong, who was kicked out of the house, held the 200,000 yuan in his hand, Xia Chaoyong, who had never seen so much money, and he didn't know much about the concept of spending money like running water. It didn't take long for 200,000 to be squandered by him.
With tattoos all over his body and his underage status, Xia Chaoyong hit a wall everywhere on the way to find a job. Just when he was desperate, a tattoo artist named Zhang Wei took the initiative to contact him.
Zhang Wei inadvertently swiped Xia Chaoyong's matter on the Internet, not tattooing minors, is an unwritten rule among qualified tattoo artists, Zhang Wei couldn't bear to see Xia Chaoyong's future ruined like this, so he contacted Xia Chaoyong to help him get his tattoo cleaned for free.Xia Chaoyong was very moved, and he is now suffering from tattoosIn order to express his gratitude to Zhang Wei, Xia Zhaoyong took the initiative to take on the work of cleaning and tidying up the tattoo parlor.
It wasn't until April this year that Zhang Wei finally cleaned up the tattoos on Xia Chaoyong's face, although if you look closely, there are still some black marks, but it can't affect Xia Chaoyong's life after that. Xia Chaoyong felt unprecedented warmth in Zhang Wei's place, so he decided to stay in the tattoo parlor, worship Zhang Wei as a teacher, and formally learn tattoos.
With Zhang Wei's help, Xia Chaoyong's life gradually got on the right track.
Tattoos are getting younger
Xia Chaoyong was deceived at a young age, in addition to his own young age and unable to distinguish between right and wrong, the biggest reason is **YuXia Chaowei's father did not give him some correct guidance in his life, which led to him being covered with tattoos.
According to a tattoo artist in Lijiang, it was described1 3 of the people who come to his shop to get tattoos are minors, mostly children between the ages of 13 and 15. Whether it's to be handsome, or to listen to someone provoke, or to deliberately want to go against their parents, it's not uncommon for minors to come to get tattoos.
So how can you reduce the phenomenon of underage tattoos?
Due to the immaturity of minors, they may get tattoos because they say on the spur of the moment, and they do not know what tattoos mean, so the formulation of some relevant regulations on tattoos may solve the phenomenon of underage tattoos from the root.
Most of the children with tattoos are in adolescence, and at this time they may have a great rebellious mentalityThe more parents don't let tattoos, the more interested they will be in getting them.
Parents should first figure out the reason for their child's tattooLet go of your own posture as a parent, communicate with him as a friend and on an equal footing, and calmly tell them their opinions as parents and the harm caused by tattoos.
Although the current society is very inclusive, there are still many jobs that have strong restrictions on tattoos, especially public institutions that absolutely do not allow tattoos on the body.
If you don't let your child know clearly what the consequences of tattoos will be for his future development, then it will be too late to regret it when he grows up.
In fact, tattoos are the most harmful to the bodyThe vast majority of children get tattoos without the consent of their parents, so if they don't have enough money, the tattoo parlors they choose are very likely to be informal.
If there is no conscientious tattoo shop, the use of substandard pigments, coupled with the disinfection of tattoo tools is not in place, it will cause wound infection, and it is likely to hurt the body.
Conclusion
Everyone says that parents are their children's first teachers, which means that parents play a very important role in their children's growthUnderage tattoos may be just a whim, but the impact on your child can be lifelong.
Xia Chaoyong was led astray because he was not guided by his parents, but Xia Chaoyong met Zhang Wei, who was willing to help him wash off his tattoos and hand them over to him, he was lucky.
Zhang Wei scoffed at the phenomenon of tattoo artists tattooing minors, and hoped that Xia Chaoyong could choose carefully when facing minors who came to get tattoos in the future, and also hoped that his life could get better and better. ยท