The movie "To Our Dying Youth" is very different from other movies, there are no gorgeous scenes, and there is no strange dog blood, telling the whole story of so many couples, each with its own story and taste.
The film's storytelling angles are innovative in their own right, almost all of themFrom a woman's point of view, to ** their respective love. The director tried to articulate a fact:A woman's love depends entirely on luck.
Zheng Wei (played by Yang Zishan) and Chen Xiaozheng (played by Zhao Youting) The couple, from not knowing each other at the beginning, to seeing each other and hating each other halfway, and then to Zheng Wei's bold pursuit later, and then finally coming together, but in the end, because Chen Xiaozheng went abroad for further study, the two failed to be together.
Ruan Guan (played by Jiang Shuying) and Zhao Shiyong, the two have been in love since high school, they were supposed to go from school uniforms to wedding dresses, but when they were in a different place in college, Zhao Shiyong betrayed Ruan Guan, and the two have been pulling for a long time until Ruan Guan was forced to go on a blind date and finally had a car accident.
The movie just shows the story of these two couples, but there are many things that can be seen.
Of course, there must be a clear position, in the story of these two couplesThe woman has always been fine.
For example, Zheng Wei, she is a girl who dares to love and hate, and she is extremely disgusted with Chen Xiaozheng, but after finding that she fell in love with Chen Xiaozheng, she immediately began to pursue it boldly, and worked hard to plan for the future of the two.
For example, Ruan Guan, what a gentle girl, her love for Zhao Shiyong is as selfless as a mother, she can forgive Zhao Shiyong's cheating, she can always accompany Zhao Shiyong, and even lost her child for Zhao Shiyong, and even went to see Zhao Shiyong when she was preparing to get married.
These two women are flesh-and-blood and affectionate people, and they really love their respective boyfriends, in their simple worldThere are plans for a boyfriend.
But the result? The essential reason for the betrayal of both of them is that the people they meet are extremely selfish people.
You can't imagine that Chen Xiaozheng, who is from such a bad background, will be a person who only wants to climb up, and can sacrifice everything in order to make himself into high society.
In order to go abroad for further study, he knew that it was a ploy of the daughter of a powerful man, but he happily entered the trap; In order to settle abroad, it is possible to marry a woman you do not love; Even after encountering a major setback in his life, he still wanted to come back and reconcile with Zheng Wei.
Such a person was also a very bottom-line and principled person at the beginning, but who knew that in the end, he would transform into this?
Needless to say, Zhao Shiyong took his selfishness to the extreme.
During the long-distance relationship, after the derailment, Ruan Guan gave him a cover, how sad was Ruan Guan at that moment? But Ruan Wan endured it and forgave him. According to normal logic, where to find a girl like Ruan Guan? It should be cherished even more.
Zhao Shiyong became more and more intense, after being born in society, he hung Ruan Guan, who was like a good wife and mother, that is, he did not get married, and let the woman who loved him so much to kill his own children.
Don't say that he didn't know about this matter, there was a high probability that he knew, but he didn't dare to face it, so he pushed everything to Ruan Guan through cold violence, and let her bear it alone. Even if he really doesn't know, it only means that he really isn't a qualified boyfriend.
It can be said that Zhao Shiyong harmed Ruan Guan's life, so that this graceful and beautiful girl ended her life hastily in the mood for love, and did not let this girl feel the beauty of love.
Whether it is Zheng Wei or Ruan Guan, they have become outcasts in love. But I have to say, if they didn't choose Chen Xiaozheng and Zhao Shiyong, would there be a good result?
I think there is still a certain probability. When Zheng Wei and Ruan Guan threw themselves into love, they didn't find outIn fact, they are also deeply loved.
For example, Xu Kaiyang (played by Zheng Kai), although he is unruly and strong-blooded, this person is a man who dares to love and hate, and has loved Zheng Wei for many years; For example, Lin Jing (played by Han Geng) was originally Zheng Wei's bamboo horse, but the two gradually drifted apart.
Another example is Zhang Kai (played by Bao Bell), who has always loved Ruan Guan silently, but because of his low self-esteem, he didn't dare to confess, so that Ruan Guan never paid the most attention to him.
Many years later, Zhang Kai was so down, but in the end he still remembered Ruan Guan, and secretly ran to her tombstone and put a bouquet of flowers to express a lovesickness. The people of Kosi are gone, and the past cannot be traced.
Zheng Wei and Ruan Wan both love their men, but they would never have thought that such an innocent man at the beginning would change his mind in the end; And where they don't pay attention, there are always people who love them deeply.
However, they did not choose the right one, and who can guarantee that they are right? After all, people always change, and of course there are people who are always the same and have never changed, such as Xu Kaiyang, Lin Jing and Zhang Kai, but they didn't choose the right one.
This is the problem of luck, because people are full of uncertainties, so they are unpredictable, and everything depends on luck.
So, for women's love, what is the way out? The movie also gives the answer.
is also a woman, Li Weijuan does not choose love, directly chooses resources, marries a rich man who does not love herself, enjoys a privileged life, and regards love as a floating cloudThe old lady didn't choose it directly；Zhu Xiaobei chooses a career and is a strong woman, lacking nothingSister is the queen.
Perhaps, this answer is not so correct, but for women, it is relatively much safer.
Zheng Wei and Ruan Guan lost their love, and they lost everything; But Li Weijuan and Zhu Xiaobei are different, although there is no love, they always have a good life, which is enough to make their lives wonderful.
It may not sound good to say, but it is always true.
Woman,Instead of pinning love and luck on yourself, a man may betray you, but he will never.