Looking back at the rural intersex people who look like men, have a daughter, and are nearly half

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-03-05

In a quiet rural village in Henan, there is a name that always revolves around an indescribable suspense.

Her name is Li Tiemei, a woman with unique physical characteristics and an unusual lifestyle.

Her appearance is more like that of a tough rural man, however, she has the identity of a daughter, which has aroused curiosity and whispers in the local area.

With the passage of time, Li Tiemei, who is nearly half a hundred years old, has never married. Her life is like the shadows of the sparse trees in this land, quiet and full of unknowns.

In this small village, her existence is like an unsolved mystery, making people curious about her past and future.

When she was a child, Li Tiemei almost lost her life under the attack of an illness.

It was an ordinary winter morning, and the silence of Li Tiemei's home was shattered by a rapid cough.

Her body was weak, her face was pale, her fever persisted, and the smell of medicinal herbs filled the whole room.

In the countryside at that time, medical conditions were very limited, and the family could only rely on some traditional herbs to try to cool down and **.

After a few days and nights of struggle, Li Tiemei's fever gradually subsided, but after the illness, she looked extremely weak.

As the days passed, Li Tiemei's physical strength gradually recovered, but she began to notice that her body seemed to be different from before.

The first thing that caught the eye was her voice, which became deep and powerful, not quite in keeping with her age and gender. The children in the village began to whisper and became curious about Li Tiemei.

The family also noticed the changes, and her parents began to worry about the difficulties they might face in the future.

They took Li Tiemei around to seek medical advice, but every consultation ended in disappointment.

The doctors either couldn't diagnose the diagnosis, or suggested a high ** cost, which was unbearable for Li Tiemei's family.

As Li Tiemei grew up, she and her family faced a difficult reality: her physical development was different. One autumn afternoon, Li Tiemei's father decided to take her to the town's hospital. They walked through golden wheat fields and rode rickety bicycles, hoping to find answers from doctors.

In the hospital, the doctor in the white coat carefully examined Li Tiemei, his brows were tightly knit, and he looked a little confused.

After some careful examination, the doctor took off his glasses and said to Li Tiemei's father: "We need to do some hormones**, which may help her condition." Li Tiemei's father looked at the doctor, his eyes full of anticipation.

However, when the doctor mentioned the ** expense, Li Tiemei's father's face turned pale.

The cost was too high for us and we couldn't afford it. He whispered, his voice revealing helplessness and sadness.

Li Tiemei stood aside, although she didn't fully understand the conversation of **, she could feel the heaviness in the air.

On the way back to the village, both were silent. Li Tiemei's father knew in his heart that they had missed the best opportunity and that his daughter would have to face a complicated future.

Li Tiemei also felt the predicament of her family, and her heart was full of confusion and uncertainty.

In the days since, Li Tiemei's life has not changed much. She still works in the fields and helps with household chores.

The people of the village had different attitudes towards her, some avoided her, others secretly watched out of curiosity. Li Tiemei gradually got used to this kind of gaze, and she learned to live strong in such an environment.

With the passage of time, Li Tiemei's special situation is no longer a secret in the village. One day, while she was doing laundry by the river, she heard some village women whispering. "That Li Tiemei is really a weirdo. One woman said.

yes, I heard that she became like this when she got sick. Another woman replied.

Li Tiemei didn't respond, she just silently continued to wash her clothes. She knew that these words did not define her life. She has her own way of facing the world, even though the world doesn't always understand her.

When she grew up, Li Tiemei was a well-known labor expert in the village.

Before the first rays of the morning sun had completely dispelled the night, she was already working in the fields. During the harvest season, she is able to wield a sickle like a man and cut wheat skillfully.

Her movements were swift and powerful, surprising even the male laborers beside her.

In the afternoon, she often helped carry the bags of grain, and the heavy bags of grain seemed to ease on her shoulders. In the eyes of the villagers, her strength is different from that of ordinary women, and even surpasses that of some men.

However, when night fell and Li Tiemei returned home, her behavior showed another side. By the fire, she gently combed her long hair, delicate and patient.

When the neighbor women came to visit and talked about family life, Li Tiemei's voice softened, in stark contrast to the roughness of the field during the day. She listened to the small talk of her neighbors, occasionally smiling coyly and answering a few words.

She likes to sit quietly at the door of her house on nights like this, looking at the moon with patches sewn in her hands.

At the village market, Li Tiemei often helps the family sell grain and vegetables. She vigorously carries baskets of agricultural products, but when communicating with customers, she shows the delicacy and patience that are unique to women. She always answered every inquiry gently, and even in the face of bargaining, she never seemed agitated or angry.

Especially in the festivals in the village, this duality of Li Tiemei is even more obvious. In the wood-chopping competition, she wielded an axe majestically, and many villagers applauded her.

At the evening ball, however, she became shy again, sitting on the sidelines and quietly watching the others dance, and when occasionally invited, her steps were gentle and graceful.

This duality, both physical and behavioral, puts Li Tiemei in a unique position in the village's interpersonal relationships.

The younger people were both curious and in awe of her, while the older generation of villagers were more concerned and understanding.

The children were curious about her and often gathered around her to listen to her talk about the outside world.

Li Tiemei is always very patient with children, she will make small toys for them and teach them about plants and animals.

In the traditional rural society where Li Tiemei lives, her unique identity and appearance often cause misunderstanding and rejection by those around her.

At the village market, when she walked through with a heavy burden, many villagers would cast strange glances, and some even deliberately avoided her path.

These subtle gestures, although not directly verbally conflicting, silently convey a message of rejection and non-acceptance.

In various gatherings and activities in the village, Li Tiemei's situation is even more embarrassing.

Especially when the topic of marriage became the main topic of discussion, she often felt that she was deliberately ignored. Even a well-meaning neighbor will try to avoid her when mentioning marriage, for fear of touching her sensitivity. This invisible isolation makes Li Tiemei particularly isolated in the social activities of the village.

Once, the matchmaker in the village passed by the door of Li Tiemei's house and talked about the marriage in the village.

They whispered: "This Li Tiemei is really a problem, which boy dares to marry her?" ”

Although the sound was not loud, Li Tiemei still heard it. She just silently lowered her head and continued to do the work in her hands.

In the busy farming season, Li Tiemei's figure working in the fields is always particularly eye-catching. She is more capable of working than ordinary people, and is often the first to arrive in the field and the last to leave.

Although she is highly productive, few villagers are willing to work alongside her. Her lonely figure in the field has become a unique scenery in the village.

Li Tiemei's family also felt pressured because of this. Although her parents and siblings were full of love and support for her, they were also aware of the attitude of the village and knew that Li Tiemei's marriage road would be full of hardships.

At dinner, although it is full of family warmth, the topic of marriage is always deliberately avoided so as not to touch on sensitivity.

Every festival, Li Tiemei is always silently on the side**.

She would watch the other girls in the village surrounded by family and friends, sharing their dreams and expectations for the future, while she could only stand quietly in the corner, ** all this.

On these occasions, she tries to make herself as unobtrusive as possible to reduce the likelihood of attracting the attention of others.

As the years passed, Li Tiemei's figure became more and more familiar and tough in the village.

Now in her fifties, her daily life seems to repeat the pattern of yesterday: getting up early in the morning, working in the fields, returning at sunset, followed by a simple dinner and rest. Although such a life seems monotonous, for Li Tiemei, it is full of her hard work and gains.

Every morning, when the first rays of sunlight shine through the window, illuminating her simple cabin, Li Tiemei starts her day.

She's busy in the kitchen, preparing simple breakfasts like home-ground polenta and fresh vegetables. She takes care of her small vegetable garden, where she grows a variety of vegetables and herbs, which are part of her daily diet.

In the field, Li Tiemei's figure is always so industrious and focused.

She skillfully wields her hoe and tends to the crops. Despite her age, she still has amazing physical strength and stamina. Whenever the harvest season comes, Li Tiemei can always harvest a golden wheat field, which is the result of her efforts.

In the evening, when she finished her day's work, Li Tiemei would sit on the stone steps in front of her house, quietly watching the sunset.

It's the most enjoyable moment of her day. She would take out the basket she had knitted and mend it carefully or continue to weave. Her craftsmanship is so good that her neighbors in the village often praise her weavings for being both practical and beautiful.

Even though Li Tiemei rarely participates in village gatherings and activities, she does not feel alone.

Instead, she enjoys this peaceful and independent life. She kept a few chickens and an old dog in her hut, and these animals became her faithful companions. Every morning, she would say hello to them, and it became part of the fun of her life.

In her cottage, the walls are hung with wall hangings and decorations made by herself, each one recording her years and memories. Although her house is small, it is warmly furnished and full of life. Li Tiemei likes to look through old photo albums in her spare time, reminiscing about the past, and each ** carries a story in her life.

Despite her uneventful life, Li Tiemei has found her own happiness and satisfaction in this quiet and closed environment. Her lifestyle may not be understood by most people, but she has found a unique joy in her own little world.

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